Simple , the stuff you said there...Read the bible (new testiment) and understand Jesus, and his LOVE.

In short though (lazy bum)    Treat the person like you would treat yourself. that means your in a good mood self.

Here is another hint and something that men hate ; pleeese , when an argument from the past was/is settled, dont bring it back up again when in a foul mood cause he may have peeved you off one night. Why not just say - I'm upset with you , then explain nicely - why - and if he's dumb enough not to understand what you mean, or WANTs an example of how he repeatedly behaves like an arsehole, then perhaps open the vault as proof, not a weapon, just as proof, even laugh about it. many people deny their bad behavior , and use excuses, but know that no one is perfect anyway.

Sooooooooo, complete honesty, and dont nit-pick to much, but rather comprimise.

You know the show - Everybody Loves Raymond - well , dont be that wife , this character was ectreme with picking arguments out of thin air.

Another lessen, and its in the lords prayer -   ASK GOD FOR FORGIVNESS OF YOUR OWN TRESSPASSES , AS- YOU FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST YOU....THIS MEANS FORGIVE! but also learn from it , both parties should...

Called according to his purpose ; well let me see.

A long story put short, I found myself with an option, and since I was betrayed on one side, I decided to give myself to GOD , I took a lot of pills , died , and woke up in the hospital. So, I guess it depends on your love-faith-belief that you have a purpose , it is written in the bible that after ones dies the first death, that one can eat/drink anything , now I tested this, but I did use my brain as well, meaning I did not put man made acid type stuff that kills body tissue , in my system, I did push it though, but use the brain, what would they have eaten back then , there were herbs and plants and that kind of stuff, but no chemical  manmade products, so choose wisely if you do this. But I do warn , one has to earnestly believe in GOD, and trust in him. This answer may be stricken cause not everyone has the open mind to know anything is possible with GOD. And who was I huh? , I believed in scientific stuff, but also in GOD, so who says God is not the supreme  Science of what it takes to create. And he does have help as well. Angels also exist. So does quantum physics, and multiworlds/universes.

When I did it, I said I give myself to you God, to use me as you please I think.

Note also, that this was building up in me for a couple of years before I did this, and since I knew my wife didnt love me, and wouldnt believe me, then decieved me, well, I had nothing to lose. But also note that blessed are the ones who endure tribulation as well, so no one has to do this, and it is a tough Job with many trials and tribulations as well. Depends on your faith I soppose. I could explain it all to you if you want more detail, but yes, a first death is neccesary, but not a grusome one, one can even die in their sleep I suppose. I used pills, but also was rushed to the hospital. So there was back up too. But pleeese , dont do it if you have doubts. Feel love. Actually, this answer should be erased by Colleen, sorry...

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Yes , I saved a picture I happened upon

Did you give all the details ? - for what if you were not looking and stepped out with your cart and got hit. I would need more information on this subject. I can picture several scenario's, and how badly are you injured, and are you in a way , perhaps being low handed and after money???-? Take no offense, but more information is needed on this...-.