Busking if you're good. I'd pay you more than $23 to walk my dog. If I had one.

It is only natural that at some stage most of us wonder about this sort of thing. You will only know with further investigation in your own time. I don't believe that you need guidance in this just exposure to the right people of the gay and lesbian community so that you aren't getting a warped view of what you seem to perceive may become a possible problem. Their are many many different sexual preferences. Heterosexuals, bisexuals, gays or lesbians are the only options so people seem to think. As with personality all of us are individuals in every aspect. Try checking out some of the openly gay and lesbian quiet little coffee shops and bars that may be  around your area or in town if you want. Believe me you don't want a first experience being one that takes you into a place that may not be safe. A person's sexual orientation shouldn't be an issue for them or anyone else unless of course it's harmful. If this woman you believe your in love with was your first lesbian experience I think you need to widen the circle you've joined. I am very interested in being able to help you sort this out as I've had a fair bit of personal experience and believe I can help. I just need to ask you some questions that you might think a bit personal and I don't want you thinking I'm a sicko or anything. 

use an ice pack like the ones you freeze and put into a small esky or ice blocks all around and on top of the chewy. This will freeze it making it brittle and should be easily removed with a hobby knife or razor blade. Another is eucalyptus oil. This dissolves the gum and is not recommended for gum in the hair as it results in the gum just being spread down the entire length of the hair. In my daughters case that was down to her bottom. But for carpet gum the oil method is fine. Just have the blade positioned at the base of where the gum contacts the carpet use cotton wool wet with oil. Hold on top of gum while slowly lifting gum from carpet as it dissolves the contact area. wash the spot with a dribble of dish washing liquid and a hot sponge if oil mark left. Hope this is helpful to you. I have millions of these little bits of info that I inherited from my Mum (god rest her soul). I'm more than happy to share them. I am Shannon-Elaine (the wonderful)(that's what my kids say)