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    I was always crazy about men and all of a sudden I started liking woman Am I a lesbian?

    I am confused. It's very hard to accept it. It could be just a phase?

    +2  Views: 866 Answers: 6 Posted: 12 years ago
    aussiedarren

    no your not a lesbian, lots of women like women just like men do .....afterall...women are hot.

    best wishes,

    Darren B from Australia
    dowsa

    Only time will tell. See Colleen`s answer.
    sewa

    Colleen , I think you are right. Let me rephrase what I said in the beginning: I am in the late 20 and I was married with a handsome guy. I was depressed and I've started psychotherapy with a lady, an old lady, who is a lesbian, for over three years. I divorced my husband, I ran away from my family, I was hiding for 1 year and 8 months, and now I came out shocking everybody. I'm more depressed, I think I'm in love with this woman and I don't know who can help me, what should I do. I feel like being used and I can not get out from under her spell.
    millie111

    Yes..Dowsa and Colleen..best advice IMHO!:-¬...You sound like you need RAPID help...a lot of issues to address and you can`t do it alone!:-¬
    Good Luck,
    millie x
    Colleen

    Moderator
    You need to get away from the psychiatrist. You do understand that most people fall in love with their doctors, right? This is not uncommon. You will know if you are gay. Just the same way you once knew you were heterosexual.

    6 Answers

    yOU MAYBE/YOU MAYBE NOT...MAYBE YOUR JUST FINDING YOURSELF AND EXPERIMENTING!...whatever the outcome you are you!!...HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE!!!...everyones special in many ways!!!!:-)...DONT FRET...ENJOY YOUR LIFE...WHATEVER YOUR SEXUALITY!!


    have fun!//LOVE MILLIE XXX

    sewa

    Yeah, this is what I think I'm doing, finding myself. But I think, I went to the extreme: I dress like a man, I cut my hair short, and I have hard time accepting that I am a man. I am very very depressed.My family was shocked when everybody saw me, and I'm trying very hard to act and behave like a man.I think I'm screwed.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Well, I can tell you that I am a lesbian. Yup, you're screwed if you do not see someone professionally. This is an identity crisis, not a sexuality crisis. Good luck. You need to figure out what in your past is causing this.

    only you can answer that

    You are truly versatile, lady!

    dowsa

    "OH witch way do I turn ?

    Look at it  this way  you got the best of both worlds  LOL

    no your not i like women and men but i know deep down iam a man

    It is only natural that at some stage most of us wonder about this sort of thing. You will only know with further investigation in your own time. I don't believe that you need guidance in this just exposure to the right people of the gay and lesbian community so that you aren't getting a warped view of what you seem to perceive may become a possible problem. Their are many many different sexual preferences. Heterosexuals, bisexuals, gays or lesbians are the only options so people seem to think. As with personality all of us are individuals in every aspect. Try checking out some of the openly gay and lesbian quiet little coffee shops and bars that may be  around your area or in town if you want. Believe me you don't want a first experience being one that takes you into a place that may not be safe. A person's sexual orientation shouldn't be an issue for them or anyone else unless of course it's harmful. If this woman you believe your in love with was your first lesbian experience I think you need to widen the circle you've joined. I am very interested in being able to help you sort this out as I've had a fair bit of personal experience and believe I can help. I just need to ask you some questions that you might think a bit personal and I don't want you thinking I'm a sicko or anything. 

    sewa

    OK, what kind of questions?
    sewa

    What do you need to know?
    sewa

    Thank you for your detailed answer. What do you need to know?
    Colleen

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    S-E, please use the "comment this answer" link to reply back. Thanks

    S-E the wonderful
    Karma: 60

    I'm sorry I don't get access often enough to be able to answer quicker. If your situation hasn't changed at all, is that because you're happy with it? Do you still feel as you did when you posted your question? I've looked at the other answers you've been given and they all seem to say the same thing. If it feels right, it probably is. No matter the outcome just remember that there isn't anyone on this earth with the power to judge you right or wrong.
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