women have the wonderful gift of intuition, however, sometimes we (women) second guess themselves because we all want to believe in our partner of choice, especially when we've been married a long time.  BobPKB is right, you know the answer, your husband might never admit it, but what I think BobPKB is saying is, you don't have to wait for your husband's seal of approval, or "validation" from a source that will never come, in the face of bold proof some people still deny. It's been a month & no matter what your choices ended up being you still have the power to proceed in a direction, don't expect your husband to give you the gift of an apology or an admittance of guilt, that puts the advantage in his court, makes him right, no matter what.  Now is a wonderful time to work on you, find out what you're all about, embrace your life, gain wisdom & forgive him, forgive yourself & you will set yourself free! Don't let all this define who & what you are, people do dumb things for dumb reasons, that's out of your control.  You only have control of the choices you make & take it as a lesson learned.  Btw, not everyone, male or female cheats, so try not to automatically cast your next partner into the same mold.  People attract & recreate situations when we don't intend to.  I did that for years, I felt like I was never good enough to be in the #1 slot so I was always the "other woman" as a teenager so I got the impression that all men were cheaters, liars & furthermore that there must be something wrong with me, that I wasn't "good enough" Not true!! You are worthy, don't let it mar you, really good book that might help you, "You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay" & she also does affirmations, very healing, revealing, & inspirational.  Move forward in your life, let go, if he was stupid enough to walk away from you (by cheating on you) then be smart enough to let him go (he'll probably keep on cheating) so it's good that you are not playing the role of "enabling his behavior like so many people do, this could have gone on for years & it's the worst kind because he denies all, there can be no trust, reconcilliation, etc unless he's willing to face his actions full on, no character!! Take care of yourself, God heals!

Thank you, & yes you're right Shootah, my son found a nice huge pile of lint build up, & removed it.  He's going to replace the coil but sometimes it costs more for the part & wasn't sure if it was worth it to fix it..but it's definetely worth it if it's only $40-50.  Dryer going out never convenient, so I want to keep my extra expenditures down if you know what I mean!