The question isn't clear to me eigther  the woman did't  presented herself well as a married  woman, and  if intentionally  then it's the woman still to blame, she should've given herself  respect for accordance.  The man after knowing  she is some ones' then he should be sentence.

There must be some weakness in the marital status, shouldn't be taken as an opportunity.

Mine 14 boy /12 girl  still wetting, after many trials i now maintain them with a system of beding  for wetting at night (Removed early morning) and  different daytime beding.

Have ur free ticket to Honkong

AlI commends are helpful with appreciation to  MOM answer which has sum up almost all what can be given to Cindy as a package.  small addition from me, is transparency with the kids every plan, action idea budget  must be put to table on discussion with four of you, they should know the capacity of the family and act within the framework of that capacity while stiving for better change. A principle of learn to like what you have if you can't get what you want. everything will be ok in the near future, the kids are coming up.

Cindy you are not alone. 

Dear Israel41, Human beings are one in the eyes & liking of God.  Jesus'  family tree decents from decendants of Abraham,David,Jacob etc....Jacob's family form the 12 tribes of Israel. 

Love, I loved my mother dearly.  She is dead now 11yrs but still i love her memories.

Don Williams, Kenny Rogers! Favorites & Brenda Fassie

Thanks to all who contributed , ( jhharIan, sunnyB, catgirl15,) 

The experiences you had  will  lift up the morals of Diabetes people speciaily  in some parts of Africa where nothing much  about diabetes is known.

Oxygens

Nnena  You need to wake up and move on,  People marry when they love each other, when marriage takes different path then it's over. You'll be buying time, to discover reality when its too late remember you are a woman.