1. Tell her to seek out a counselor for 2 sessions to clear up her own intentions. 2. Then she commits to working thru her emotional attachments, AND to expressing to you what emotions about you might be stopping her from wanting ONLY you, with the intention to work thru those too (with your own full cooperation) OR you separate & cease ALL contact (not even "Facebook") 2 weeks after she fails to make and keep that commitment.
Si dico "Yo soy un hombre sincero de donde cresce la palma" ("Guantanamera"), dico Yo soy estudiante en la universidad . . . . "
Not better than we see in the dark now. For we need the sensory down-time for replenishing and upgrading the capacities of our brains without significant external input. So our species traded reduced nocturnal self-protection for much ,more flexible, rapidly adaptive & resilient awareness & response capabilities. Perhaps Yeti species remnants represent what we'd be if the nocturnal omnivision had been more adaptive.