It doesn't actually say anything on that topic directly. I think you know the answer to that one. Common sense would tell you that a sexual relationship comes with many twists and therfore if you do not have a committment in mind, you are asking for a lot of turmoil. Promiscuity is mentioned in the bible in a couple of places though, with references to harlets etc. Not exactly the same as "premarital sex".

What I hear you saying in the question is, why do I continue to stay with a man who is abusing me in one way or the other, whether it be his addiction, cheating, financial problems, physical of mental abuse etc. The answer is because women usually are afraid of insecurity in their life, first. The problem is indulging a spouse never ever ever leads to the behavior change which is sought. NEVER. The problem only gets worse until there is a critical event like , hospitaliztion in the case of abuse, or some type of encounter with the police. Even after a few of those , some women refuse to admit they ae trapped in a relatonship which is going no where fast,which will never improve , and often will lead to a horrible demise one way or the other. So seek professional help now. Especially if children are involved.

Finding a church which has the qualities which are described above is fine. BUT the main thing is to find a church where the preacher is pointing you to Christ and focuses on Christ, and nothing else. Any sermonizing which focues on anything else is a false teaching. If you're unsure of not going astray, stay with the main stream protestant churche IMO such as Presbyterian, Methodist, Baptist and avoid Jehovah's Witness and Mormon in particular. Remember some of the main stream churches have gone very liberal on social issues for instance,so you should ask first thing about that kind of belief.

Remember the purpose of a church is not to hold you accountable for your sin. That is Gods job. The purpose of the church is to provide a fellowship of believers which support, pray, intercede, and worship God together. Don't be so senstive about what people think of you . Only worry about what God thinks of you . That is the only thing which is important.

If you have to ask what is an attractive women , then you have a issue with wanting to please others to much. Why? Because why would you care what an attractive women is to someone else? Attractive is a personal choice, which needs no other input. Think on that. Then be yourself and don't worry about what others think, and someone will be attracted to you because you then will be self confident enough to have a aura of attraction.

I have friends who have met good people on the net. I have always worried about Internet contacts. Especially for women. Not so risky for men I suppose. After all when you think about it, even if you go out with someone you meet in the grocery store, you don't know them either. On the other hand, the online connection can really be deceptive at first. Be very cautious on that first meeting I would think. Churches are a good way to meet people ,but they are not guaranteed low risk either. Bars are a bid idea in my opinion. I just can't see good relationships spawming from people who hang in bars. Just me I guess.

I love Jesus because I know HIM. No reason to love someone you don't know. The secret is to get to know HIM. You do that on your knees and asking Him to show you that He exists. Thats all I can tell you. Seek and ye shall find. Resist seeking and what you have is a livelong existence based on self reliance , which is a lie. You can not avoid the torment of the tug, but you can reject God. One is not capable of living a life of peace and joy without God. Its your choice.

If you're depressed its either situational or intrinsic. If its from being bored (in a rut), something which happened to you like a loss of a job, loved one, or bad circumstance, then its situational. If you always have been "drpressed", have been unhappy and have not had the ability to enjoy your life regardless of pretty normal circumstances , then its intrinsic. Either way you will need medication AND counseling. NOt one or the other. Go see your doctor and see if he agrees that you are depressed. Then see a pshchiatrist. There are many effective medications which can bring you out of depression , even in a few weeks. If you are chronically depressed medication can help but it may take longer. Don't substitute counseling for medication. It never works. Don't go to your doctor and get a prescription for the andidepressant of the week and skip the counseling. The medication will work temporarily, but most people who are depressed have an underlying emotional cause, which needs to come to the surface. Its like an emotional pus wound. Until you identify the source it just keeps festering. The medication will help offset it ,but until it comes to the surface it can not heal. Hope that helps.

The system is to flawed to invoak the death penalty. DNA has proven that fact. Only is situations where there is do doubt at all, should it happen. In those cases a law should be passed that the person is executed withing 2 weeks of the final appeal. And that all appeals must be heard within 3 months of the litagation. PERIOD.

In my opinion anabolic steriods are bad for anyone. You can't beat the aging process despite what many think. Just exercise and eat healthy.

Is the pope catholic? Any religion which has a good percentage of its people believing in jihad and Sharia law should be feared. Moderate Islam says it is not violent. Yea?... well then where do we see them coming out in groves to discredit the crazies who are cutting off peoples heads on a regular basis? No where , that's where.