im in group therapy learning to be independant instead of co-dependant ,and i will survive. im smart nice looking,i like to help people,and i wont give him the satisfaction to bring me down ever again. besides hes gonna be 65, whats the life expectancy these days???? 70 ?

vinny he is making me the bad spouse to cover up his infedlity,and manipulating ,pathological lying,controling self. i have no one in my life,he does. he has taken all my so called freinds from me even some of my family, by telling them who knows what lies and paid them to not help me if i need it. his goal....leave me with nothing....and he is so good at this they beleive him, but they do not know what kind of person he is when we are alone.he has emotionaly and mentaly abused me. what i wrote isnt even a taste of the evil things he done to hurt me. he has told me i was a fuck up, he went home smelling like dirty sex,and then says nothing happened, well a mans thing dont smell like fish, unless hes f-----g with some dirty p---y. you see vinny im not 14 anymore im 45( and a goodlooking 45 latina) i started to notice his cheating and he hated that. so he wanted out, but he is so coward he had to keep our marriage going ,instead of ending it then.he planned all of this . he says i got to old for him hes 19 years older...GO FIGURE, im not the young vulnerable girl i was when we met ...well he isnt all that either never has been,he told me everything a young girl wants to hear, and i fell for it. we had it good the first 15 years of marriage then it started going down. so its about him , im still trying to figure out why, and i wont get that answer. ladies.. grow old with someone your own age

nothing .....for being illegal