find someone else, this is probably a temporary crush you have. If you break them up, he will probably leave you for someone else eventually too.  Start by finding someone you have an attraction to, then just be their friend for awhile and see where it leads. The best longlasting relationships are when you just be yourself and let the guy get to know you and you get to know him.  Dont start any relationship with SEX! That is the biggest mistake any woman or girl can make. Females tend to think romantically...they have sex one time then believe they own the guy and expect more and more and get hurt when they dont get that. The guy has sex, its just sex, no more. If he falls in love with the girl first, then has sex, he will love her more each day. I always tell girls to look at the worst possible things you can about the guy..if you can accept that, then all else is okay. But never try to own him, and dont allow him to own you. Good Luck..