Adi is pretty spot on! Im a Christian i know Jesus and confess Him as my Lord and savior and believe He was raised up the Third day by God After taking all the sin of the world on HImself! He died For us a unworhty people! I bring that up to say through my relationship with Him and Getting in the Word of God, and by listing to some very Good men of God like Mark Driscol the pastor of Mars Hill Church and Aron Stern the Mill college age Group pastor out of New Life church and Andrew Wommak and so many others( all names might have some spelling mistakes ha but they are real i promise ha) through all that, i have a better idea of what a true man of God should be like! The reason i want to know what a real man Of God looks like is because that is what i want, i wanna be the man of God that my wife and kids look up to and strive to be like themselves. You bein the Woman of the relationship should not have to pay for anything i mean you for sure shouldnt have to take care of him! He should be taking care of you if in anyway he really wants to be your husband some day, And i would like to think you met at the hotel to go to dinner and a movie and slept in different rooms and if anything beds lol but idk but i do know if all he wants from you is to get you naked and take your money? no matter what if he is a scammer conartist or not He is not a Godly man and you deserve that in your life! You deserve Someone thats going to love you for who you are and not what you can do for you! A man that doesnt use you to get his but someone that loves and has a relationship with God almighty and can love you with the type of love that never fails! thats Gods kinda Love, agapa, unconditional Love! Your a Daughter of the most High the one and only true God!!! weather you believe it or not He still loves you and man i cant believe i even wrote this or read those answers ive done this one other time in my life haha but just i would like to see it as God is reachin out to you with HIs arms wide open just usin any way He can to let you know He loves you enough to Die for you cause he already has:) HAve a blessed Day and if you already know Jesus then build that relationship and know there are Godly men out there that would love to spoil you and treat you like the true princess you really are! If you dont Know Jesus yet then id like to be your first step to building a relationship with HIm :)He loves you unconditionaly just the way you are Died for your past furture and present sins and i mean sin isnt an issue anymore He just wants you to come to know him! here is some scripture from the Bible John 17:3 (relationship) Romans 10:9-13, John 5:1 (salvation) Ephesians 4:32 , Colossians 2:13 , John 2:2 (Forgiven) and check out www.awmi.net it walks you through the prayer for salvation and being baptized in the Holy Ghost and if anything else its a good place to see wHo God really is and start that Realtionship right:) have a good one!