wow not such uncommon situation doolittle exspecially in these hard times!! i also live in my house with my ex domestic partner who took me to court to end our domestic partnership and i did not attend the court hearing i have my reasons for missing court but i really thought it was a joke thinking what does he want me to give back his promise ring! i did not know he was going for the house and every other stupid thing he could because he hit me the  courts restrained him from the house for a year where we lived i didnt but thats not the point point is the judge still gave him the house but he also knew he was full of crap saying that he payed all the bills morgage....when he lived a county away in college for the last two years so he put a judgement of 5000 with interest and also a lean on the house he just gave him if he doesnt pay the judgement ! well i also did nothing to collect this judgement so far due to the fact that i have been living there on and of  mostly on for the last 6 yrs and have payed nothing and figured i will not persue the judgement wich he has no $ to garnish he cant even pay the morgage for the house he stole from me .he works for the owner to catch up on morgage payments. house is a land sale contract no bank involved.  he  would of lost the house long time ago if bank financed hes four months behind on morgage  now i  am being horassed followed and anything elsa he can get away with.he jst got out of jail for hitting me again! wich  i could of  pressed charges and since this is his 3rd strike prison ! i didnot but the judge again told him for the next three years the da or dv org or himself even hears he even said boo to me there will be no question case gets reopened with or without my permission and off to prison he goes!you think hed stop and leave me alone. ah no, he accuses questions harrasses me about my boyfriend who he does not like.to damb bad we are divorced from a nonmarriage per his doing i can date santa and the reindeer if i want and have frosty on the side!! he has no say but hes getting to close again ,and wants me out of the house!no im not going anywhere he offered to pay me a 1000 if id move out. oh sure when the judgement of  5000 @7% interest for the last six yrs you do the math!of course i just laughed in his face go get me kicked out like you did before i want to see what the judge has in store for you this time! all because he doesnt like my boyfried he thinks i should have some sort of respect for his feelings because he is letting me live there! pay me my 12000 or so and ill be on my way or get me evicted for what ever bull you can come up with or keep up your shit, and off to prison you go ! who i date does not pertain to the judgment! he moved me in and i have more witnesses then gods has angels including the police.get away from him if you can, its abuse what hes doing to you!! i know the pattern it starts with your clothes,makeup ,,,then the phone food friends.then  goes to him answering the phone prtending hes you to get info from your friends!!!! to stealing your phone reading your txt your mail...,stalking you at your work to slap to punch to broken bones sometimes rape isolation from your friend family...till hes got you weak and cops get sick of answering the calls for help!!then you have to start getting evidence,photops,witnesses,police records ...to finally be heard!! it really shitty way to live!!!! i have my reasons for doing what i am and wasting the last 10yr of my life mainly because i no longer have one! because i didnt get help!he isolated me from the start, i just  for some reason was froze in his madness!!!  his 3 month in jail for the last assault was my window to get my shit together rescources,records,witnesses,...voice recordings, photos you have to be a detective a sneak a thief aliar all to get his friends to talk or him to slip to get proof its HORRIBLE you become everything you(i HOPE)hate in someone elsa if they did to you!GET HELP NOW BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR LIFE FIGHTING FOR YOUR  SANITY BACK im am in no way glorifiying this behavior from the abuser or what the abused becomes,both are straight up crazy! im not glorifying what im doing in any way! no winners in this mess!!!GET HELP TELL A PARENT FRIEND...NO JOKE ITS ABUSE!!!!! i hope that you take yhis advice seriously!!!

children service will get involved and there will be a investigation performed to dsee if you are a unfit parent and also if they are fit!unfortutly the kids might be in the hands of strangers why this living hell is going on!

first whos house?who kicked you out?where is children service they usually get involved because the cops have to file a report with them the same cops that have to serve you the restraining order!what court proceeding acurred ? you dont jst buy one at the local 7-11!he had to go to plea his case and the kids would be in custody of child protection! call a womens shelter and get those kids off the street before you get child neglect charges!if your not technically on the sidewalk then get a sitter and get your butt to the court house look up info on his file its public information jst tell the clerk his name and you would like to see his criminal file! you need to look up info on the eviction notice that has to have some sort of court,docket or case number to be legal!go to polce station where this eviction notice came from !how did this order get to you?usually posted on your front door!or a process server!any other way it better have info pertaining to who delivered it and the time date they did so so this info can get back to the court to file so it is a  case!go see the judge and  fight it!you have a right to know which judge granted him this order and why!!!it does not sound right and they donot come in the mail!!!