fuseable circuit
I had a problem like that, this is how I handled it. I had to look who I was dealing with, I didn't yelled to the ugly yelling and slandering jester coming out of his mouth. I walked away as if nothing was ever said. I had to remind myself that I was not up against that person but was up against the spirit that was in him, using his mouth to attack me. I walk away praying quietly telling satin get behind me you will not have your way with me, In Jesus name I bind that tongue and you will not speak to me again s such. later on I was around this person and he said he was sorry, that he didn't know why he said that to me. I just smiled. . and walked away.
try not allow neg speaking, lies. , yelling etc put you down, chose to walk away you will be better off, then to yelled at and still your joy. just reverse your situations showing its not bothering, that gets to them more then if you did fight with that person. do the opposite, give that person kindness, a smile, and say, hey I am not talking to as such, please don't talk me like that, making changes in our life will make a different in how we handle our-self.