You sound like my daughters?  But as I told them to you the difference between age 14 and age 16 is just 2 years even though to you it will feel more like 200 years and yet it will come all to fast. While waiting use the time to prepair, learn who you are since only then can you know what you really want.

Also remember having someone who is unworthy is worst than having no one at all.  Work on your shyness first.  To start make yourself smile and look everyone you see in the eyes and say HI to everyone you pass as you walk down the street or hall.  For you if you really are shy this will be very hard to do, but you must make yourself do it to help overcome your shyness and to gain confidence.

Never mind what the other person does back when you smile, look at them and say Hi.  Remember you are doing it for you more than them.  This will be the begining of finding someone worthy of being with you. 

That is all you have to do to start, but for some who are really shy it is hard and can take all of the two years you have to develop yourself.  Once you can do this everytime you go down the street or hallway you will have come very far in finding the right one to start dating.  Good luck.

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