are you a man or mouse? just teasing. now you seem even sweeter! before you call her back this time you should now something... the "pregnant pause" is a tool that many people like to use. it's a way of making the other person uncomfortable. now with that said by chance is your ex bitchie? sounds like she has a chip on her shoulder to not help you out and let you suffer like that, minutes from the outside but from your point that pause took years. not nice. if she is not what i am describing then just call her beck. we girls like men to fall over themseleve to get to us. LOL!!! however if she EVEN remotely has the above charactic's take a piece of paper and make two rows. one row on all her bad ACTIONS and one for good actions. DONT put her name on it. Remember things she SAID dont count ONLY HER ACTIONS. Now put that paper away and come back to it after 3 hours or more. before you look at that sheet ask yourself out loud(no one will hear), "does this paper describe a person I would want as a friend. Now look at it. everybody has good and bad buts how much they have of each that will show you the way. If you don't respect yourself how do you expect your partner too. if she is passive aggressive in any way RUN RUN RUN if she is selfish RUN RUN RUN if she is not giving of her time without making you pay RUN RUN RUN. Good Luck Mate. PS American girls loooove aussie accents no matter what you look like. It's all in the charm but never be a creep. Good Luck lover boy

real men like real women. A woman who has hips and curves, not rolls, will always get more admirers compared to a woman with no or little curves. Plus we curvy girls are softer! Now Men who have broad shoulders, nice strong arms, stand up straight with confidence,no beer belly,and has a charming smile is a desirable guy in the body department to me.

LET HER GO AND CONCENTRATE ON WHAT TYPE OF GAL WOULD YOU WANT IF YOU COULD SNAP YOUR FINGERS AND ORDER HER UP. ON A PIECE OF PAPER WRITE ONE WORD ON EACH LINE TIL YOU HAVE DESCRIBED YOUR PERFECT PARTNER. INCLUDE EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING!! ONCE YOU WRITE YOUR LIST DOWN PLACE IT IN A SPECIAL SPOT YOU WONT FORGET ABOUT. YOU WILL BE AMAZED AT HOW WRITING YOUR LIST DOWN HELPS YOU TO BE OPEN TO FIND YOUR NEXT GAL WHO WILL MEET YOUR QUALIFICATIONS. DONT FORCE IT LET IT HAPPEN AND IT WILL. WHEN YOU DO START DATING SOMEONE PULL OUT YOUR LIST AND SEE HOW SHE MATCHES UP. ON A SEPARATE SHEET OF PAPER WRITE DOWN 5 DEAL BREAKERS. THESE ARE A NO GO FOR YOU. TRAITS OR HABITS THAT ARE NOT OK WITH YOU IN A PERSON TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. HERE'S A MAJOR CLUE FOR YOU - ONLY DATE WOMEN WHO LIKE THEIR DADS AND HAVE GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE MEN IN HER LIFE. YOU DONT WANT A MAN HATER WHO HAS A CHIP ABOUT MALES BECAUSE OF HER RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES AND VIEWS OF MEN. ALWAYS START HERE BEFORE YOU INVEST ANYTIME INTO HER. IT'S EASY TO BRING UP IN CONVERSATION WHEN YOU ASK EACH OTHER ABOUT YOUR FAMILYS WHICH ALWAYS COMES UP IN THE FIRST 2 DATES. HOPE THIS HELPS YOU!!! GOOD LUCK

As a woman follow these steps and you might get her back. If this dosn't work your relationship is over for her. Ask to meet her at a park or even go for a walk so you don't feel as much on the spot. Start by telling her you cant stop thinking about her.{we love this} Then OWN up to your part of your world war three by being humble and by using only I statements. {never put her on the defense by throwing out words like you and but. If you use those words as soon as they come out of your mouth the fight is on and you loose.} Ok, once you OWN up and apologize in the most sincere way, you make a statement saying how you are working on blah blah blah and you now know having a relationship with her is whats important to you. {FYI look her in the left eye which connects to the emotional part of your brain} Go in prepared by wearing her favorite cologne and wear a colored shirt that brings out your eye color. Eyes are the window to the soul.To get you in the mood play upbeat music on the way to see her. Confidence is very sexy! If you follow my advise she should melt like butter in your hands. If she doesn't move on. She has. FYI-- NEVER TELL HER WHERE YOU GOT THE IDEA OR ALL YOUR BROWNIE POINTS JUST WENT OUT THE DOOR! Good Luck!**