thank you so much guys for the excellent feedback

Bob/PKB your answer stood out the most and yes i have listened, i have told him where to go and it feels sad to let him go but worth it as he obviously doesn't respect me:/ thanks guys(:

no problem and thanks for the welcome, im from northan ireland, ballycastle in fact!:L if i where you try anti-ageing creams before you go under the knife

NO! your wrinkles tell a different story of your life why get rid of that with a painful procedure i think you look beatuiful and a face lift would destroy your natural beauty. be true to who you are(: x