I hesitate to answer your question directly, however, in principle I do believe without a doubt, that this is considered to be cheating on at least an emotional level. I'm no genious by any means, but it seems as though you have difficulty forming a proper sentence which may or may not reflect your level of education and or intelligence. I think there are a million reasons why people cheat and if you can't even make your point in writing, what is occurring each time you are under stress during an argument or discussion of your differences. If it's that important to you it would seem that you would take the time to at least form complete and logical sentences. A lack of ability to communicate or make your point understood is essentially poor communication. I have experienced this as well so I'm no expert. Pleas don't take this as mean spirited.