Man will always seek a deity or force higher than his understanding, religion is not manufactured or established by God. When mankind can not do things beyond his ability he seeks strength both physical and spiritually from a source beyond himself. Time has proven such facts that all people really want order in their lives, so there is a need for authority, people pick and choose by free will who they want to establish and set moral values for them. The best documents throughout time wins this battle year after year, because disorder is unhealthy and kills, civil unrest is a killer outside the boundaries of what people can take on a daily basis. That is why revolutions only last so long months and years because deep inside every human their is compassion for humans much more than anything on Earth. Searching for higher authority and finding it brings peace in the body, soul, and spirit. We need peace, no one wants to be under stress all the time all their lives. The documents written by various people of the past has and always will be challenged from generation to generation but the morals of man has been on trial in the world court since the beginning. You have to organize the world that is why we have so many governments, that is why so many have tried to conquer the world as it is known. Imagining the Egyptians of old, Xerxes, Alexander the Great, Richard the Lion Heart, and many many conquers to the past century waking up finding out that there is no way they ever could rule the world and all the people in it. Stupid idea, why, because we die for freedom to think and be as we would like, you may get us for a season, but you will meet the day when we wake up! So you see its about what are you willing to die for so your time and those you love will continue from generation to generation in freedom in body, soul, and spirit? Again we humans need guidelines because a good bad idea can kill us all!!! That is why we choose to have MORAL VALUES, some have been so frustrated with life they have made themselves their own God because of the imperfections in every process the human mind can come up with. My suggestion is find the one closest to the perfection you are looking for and follow after those attributes and increase your chance of living! I am studying the Holy Bible and I choose to believe in the authority from which it is written and by the authority to whom it is written about! My choice and my life has dramatically changed, search for your peace! You can have it now on Earth while you are living!!!
No you can not be in love with two women regardless of what anyone says, if you are in love with what they do or give you! I can guarantee you that if you are in love with one woman and do all the things necessary to commit wholeheartedly in the relationship then you would not have anytime for the another woman. There is a difference of being in love and just loving someone, one of the two has become a sister or a mother to you, except that you may me in a sexual relationship because you want to own what both have to offer. But in all reality, you need to look at yourself, your worth and value, your morals, and weigh out what is really going on that you are hiding! Look in your past, look at your family, look at your friends, look at your life and determine if someone have really explained to you that commitment is not love, commitment is a component of love. Love has many attributes and grows as an individual grows, you need to ask yourself some questions and be honest with yourself. It is not possible to be in love with more than one person at a time. Not only is it impossible it is too much work and too stressful on the soul and body even if the spirit of lust is satisfied. I suggest digging deep inside and face the consequences of your desire and free yourself from the overwhelming desire to find all of what you need in more than one person. If you can do this then when you wake of from fantasy island you will find all you ever wanted was in your face in one package and nothing was wrong with it except you did not learn how to draw out what needed. Anyway, you know the answer to your question and you know the solution. Speak the truth and quit making your mind lie to you. Apparently love is a cliche and not a foundation for the morals you should have. Being in Love and Loving Someone is 2 different things, try getting forcing yourself to tell the truth to both of them and see exactly who is in love with you or ask them to tell you the truth. May be neither!