I used to get bullied EVERY day for over 2 years.....came home with bruising all down my legs from being kicked. One day I just flipped and really damaged not just one but a few of them. Felt great at the time and the bullying stoppoed. trouble is it tought me a bad lesson in life....You cant go round thumping people who verbally abuse you although I did and ended up in a whole load of trouble....Just wish i'd have had the verbal skills to hit back without getting physical....great thing, heinsight!!!

Think you're being too hard on yourself. There will ALWAYS be guys out looking for no strings attached sex as there are women wanting EXACTLY the same......Most are married or have parners unaware sitting at home. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places??? Some of us like to chat and talk about other things. If I was you, I'd get a hobby where everyones got a common interest. That way the empathis on sex fades into the backround and any attraction would creep in naturally. aaah well my take on it anyway

I've had both and I guess you could argue that cats fend better for themselves without humans but cant see a cat being trained to be a guide cat for the visually impaired somehow! Theres an argument for everything but I aint joining this one ;)