I am a very positive person but I have to say no. I had been married all my life and at one point in the beginning was out with my girls looking for someone I guess.  But the problem is I couldnt find anyone because I didn't even know what type of man I wanted and if I wanted one at all.  Needless to say I drank that year away and am so thankful that I didn't find anyone.  I think when you jump right into arelationship you don't get the change to find out who u are and get rid of baggage that you need to get rid of first because carrying it into new relationship just won't work.  My biggest thing was I had kids all the time and I husband and when they were gone I was lost. It's been 5 years and I love. My biggest fear also was I didn't know how to date I'm 20 some years older and I just kinda gave up. But if u still believe that's what you want then go for it! goodluck

I just had to address this and I'm not even in Washington State.  And if you think its back there come to the South where women have no rights.  This man left after 20 years 3 days after that took his girlfriend to Florida for 10 days then got back went to Las Vegas 6 or 7 times moved into a 650,000 house with her while all these proceedings were going on and seeing that I was a stay at home Mom he had exclusive rights to all money coming in.  And this was not small amounts he's in the gambling business and the judge never once sanctioned his for all the marital asserts he used on her. Not even half way through divorce he bought her a new car, opened her up a business and it just goes on and on.  I went through 3 attorneys which cost 75,000 dollars he was never made to pay me for attorney fees and he was the one caught with Adultery  so my exact words from my attorney were it's just not a big deal anymore.  I could go on and on this lasted 5 years and did what ever he wanted and continues to till this day.  So I feel for you really this has been the most exhausting experience and my problem is he was ordered to pay me alimony until I die unless I marry and that ain't happening.  But in March of 2013 the FBI, Semiole Cty Sheriffs dept and other agencies arrested 7 of them form here for running poker machines in Florida he was arrested and was charged with 24 felony accounts and when that happened Semiole Cty put out a 441 page financial aff and in there between his partner they made over 120 million dollars and never disclosed in divorce and on top of that he bought his way out of the charges by paying over 700,000.  So my advise is you can't trust anyone not your attorney, not the courts no one.  I truly wish you the best because it's never a fair divorce not even close.  My best to you.  And if you have any questions I would be happy to answer.  During the divorce I became a paralegal but will never work for an attorney in SC.