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    What can I do to improve my life?

    I've never had any look with girls or anything and I was wondering if anyone had any tips...

    +7  Views: 1740 Answers: 20 Posted: 13 years ago
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    If you think a woman will improve your life, you must also believe in the Easter Bunny. But if it's a woman your looking for, take heed, Your demeanor will dictate what kind of woman will be attracted to you, behave like an idiot, and you will attract an idiot. Behave like a gentleman, who can count to 100, you will attract a better clientele.
    Tommyh

    How did you behave Ed.:)
    ed shank

    Like Al Capone, I took what I wanted. Just kidding. I know my wife since were 5 yrs old. We were buddies for years, she was my first steady girlfriend and I couldn't put up a fake front, she knew me for what and who I was. Married 42 yrs this year. Doesn't say much about her taste in men though.
    ole hipster

    Stop knocking old Al....he's practically a legend here in Chitown...could've been mayor actually except for the teeny bit of laws he broke! LOL I congratulate both you and your wife on begin together for 42 years...are you guys trying to get into Guinness (sp?) book of records?! Take care now ed shank...(:
    Make sure you have taken good care of your appearance (no body odor, brush your teeth, clean clothing, etc.), and just be yourself. A good sense of humor helps too.
    Love what you have, who you are and where you have been. See all of that as prep work for todays happy choices.
    I believe most of your success can come from just a few simple thing, one of the most important is having a great attitude and outlook on life. Being a positive, funny, happy person, will want others to be around you.

    Working out will help with your self confidence, make you feel better about yourself, and make you look better as well.

    I would also suggest to develop a good relationship with God/Jesus, because our spiritual side is even more important than our physical, or mental part. It's all about balance, notice I mentioned mind, body, and spirit.
    5 easy steps to your question: (1) Get youself a drink (2) put your feet up & relax (3) spend the evening on aqaQA (4) keep your glass topped up (5) enjoy!
    ole hipster

    Good one! TU for you (:
    Believe me, there is a female out there for you, just have to find it.
    DRINK.. Went with the wife for five years. was drunk when I proposed {she even waited the next day to see if I remembered}That was 24 years ago,, still going strong, And no don't become an alcoholic!
    "There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.” Nietzsche Love in your life begins with you loving life, one day at a time…moment by moment…dawn to dawn…every day. When you love life…life loves you…then someone will notice, then someone else and as you continue to love, your life changes…you become better than you were…and you feel better…and look better…love is all you are.
    itsmee

    "There is always some madness in love. But there is always some reason in madness.:" Nietzsche
    Hi robertgrist, I typed that to feel it in my fingers to see if I get it. Ok...Once that overwhelming event happens in your life, you do go mad. There is nothing that can stop love. It may not benefit your life or the life of others, but if it happens, it happens. It's rare. (Thank Goodness!)
    My brain is distracting like mad today!
    robertgrist

    "The truth of love is the truth of the universe: it is the lamp of the soul that reveals the secrets of darkness". Kabir
    The way to improve your life,is not by what you do,but the way you go about solving problem, if it simply for your own need or greed not to help anyone,but for yourself, God will not give u more than you can handle.So your question should be what would you want me to do."what is the will for me "FATHER".After that the challenge might be little harder.That part of growing up,same rule for us older folk,
    You don't need to worry,ask,and it shall be given.
    I saw a beer ad poster at a bar that I really liked, it says, "Beer! helping ugly people have sex since 1862." ;-)....just a joke.
    itsmee

    Of course it's a joke. Nobody but nobody would take it serious. (Itsmee leaves the room with her shoulders shaking and her hand over her mouth."
    schubee

    Didn't want to offend anybody... ;-)
    when you're down and out,
    Lift up your snout and shout,
    It's gonna be a great day!
    when I had the preschool I had to be up and positive. If not, I'd bring the whole class down with me. I'd smile! there's actually proof that if you smile your body will think you're happy and things will be better. (OK. It's a little more difficult now but here I go. I'm smiling and I'm going to go fix two big artichokes.)
    dam, it's harder now.
    Be optimistic!
    Don't give up!
    :)
    Thank you loads for the answers people :D There are a lot of insightful people here :P
    Just enjoy life the way in which you think is best suited for you. Laugh everyday at yourself as well as others
    You can always add ice cream in your life to improve :)
    cuz cant no one tell yuh how yur life is only yuhnd only yuh change it as well
    justsad

    I appreciate that and thanks. But... the reason i asked the question was to gain just some tips for a bit of light hearted fun... I don't intend to live my life by them...
    Nikki29

    oh well dats easy jus be yur self nd look gud thats what i look for in ah guy
    justsad

    much thanks... :)
    only yuh can answer dat question

    To move you should know first where you are now. If you are not able to define where you are you will never succeed!

    Do all of the above + don't forget to pray and .....


    "Don't give up on your faith, love comes to those who believe it. 


    And that's the way it is."


    ~ Celine Dion


     

    no one talk about religion and happiness in religions manner In my opinion I tink islam can keep me happy all the day because I find the pest frind .yes It is my god and the islam.. try it and seek the happiness .
    itsmee

    "I find the pest frind" ?


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