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Have you ever cheated on a person you were in a relatioship with? What happened, did they find out, were they crushed, did you feel guilty about it?

If you could take it back would you? Why did you do it, have you cheated on other girlfriends/boyfriends? Did you learn any tough lessons? Why do you think it's o.k. to cheat? (If you do.)

Have you ever cheated on a spouse, would you ever?

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+8 Views: 2952 Answers: 20 Posted: 13 years ago

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Jenn

Karma: 194594

Yes... No he never found out.. Made me feel worthless and used. The worst chioce I ever made in my life.

13 years ago. Rating: 14
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leeroy

Good to see that you had a conscience about it. Everyone makes mistakes, as long as we learn from them, you know?

commented 13 years ago

Jenn

Yup... I learned that lesson before I made that mistake with the love of my life... I think that is what being a teenager is all about.

commented 13 years ago

Tommyh

You are an interesting woman Jenn.

commented 13 years ago

Jenn

IF you say so.. Should I take that as bad or good?

commented 13 years ago

Tommyh

This is an old post but at least Jenn had the guts to admit it and thats gotta be good.

commented 8 years ago

leeroy

Karma: 199220

I think if you cheat either you are in a relationship with the wrong person, or you have issues that you should be addressing. TMO

13 years ago. Rating: 12
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leeroy

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I have never cheated on a girlfriend in my life and have had many. One time I started dating another girl before I had the chance to break up with the old girlfriend, but that was only the matter of a day. I had already made up my mind to end it.

So technically you could say yes once, but in my mind we were already broken up, she just didn't know it yet.

13 years ago. Rating: 12
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eggplant

Karma: 385805

For me the answer is no, never cheated. I think one man is enough.

13 years ago. Rating: 11
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ed shank

Karma: 316611

No never. I kept thinking about the guns in the house. Been shot already, not again.

13 years ago. Rating: 11
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Jenn

Ya the would be my hubby.. LOL...

commented 13 years ago

Headless Man

Karma: 267169

Never did, but I had it happen to me.

13 years ago. Rating: 11
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friendindeed

Karma: 86572

Never. The very thought of letting my wife down makes me sick. How could I look her in the eye. You see, I love her. She is all I need

13 years ago. Rating: 11
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IamPamela313

Well said...

commented 13 years ago

schubee

Karma: 28785

Never, but yes, numerous times in my imaginations...LOL

13 years ago. Rating: 10
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schubee

Oh wait, sorry, never cheated on my wife, but I had cheated on my girlfriend when I was like 20. It was one night stand and she never found out, thank god!

commented 13 years ago

Jenn

Ya that too.

commented 13 years ago

wonderer

Karma: 113975

ya, no, no, ya.

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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ed shank

Sounds like Bill Clinton "I did not have sex with that woman"

commented 13 years ago

PANDA

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TOUGH LESSON #1) DON'T TALK IN YOUR SLEEP!" (I'MMMM KID'IN)!" "I MAY BE A REAL (BAD) BOY! "BUT HONEY! I'M A REEEEAL GOOD MAN!" "YOU CAN TAKE THAT TO THE (BANK)!"

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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varon

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I have not cheat. I was single and I met a woman at a gathering who told me she was separated from her husband and we had a one night stand and precisely that only night the husband showed up. They were still married and living together. He was a salesman and cut his trip short. Well, you guess it! Found us in bed and I got the worst beating of my life.

13 years ago. Rating: 8
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leeroy

Wow, that's the worst case scenario huh? You see it on television, but never expect it to happen to you...

At least he didn't shoot you... lol

commented 13 years ago

varon

Sometimes I wonder what would have been better ....the beating or got shot. Telling you, it was bad. The positive side .... never believe again when a girl told me she was separated.

commented 13 years ago

IamPamela313

glad you are still here with us to tell the story

commented 13 years ago

varon

Thank you Pamela, me too, believe me ... me too. Thanks again

commented 13 years ago

Colleen

Karma: 2042400

No. Never have, never will. When I make the decision to be in a full time relationship, then that's it. There's no looking around for another. My world is built around the love I have for my partner. NO ONE can entice me away. I've had people(both men and women) innocently flirt with me because they didn't know I was in a relationship and I would get mad at them because I'd feel offend for my girlfriend, like feeling the way she would feel if she saw them flirting with me like that. I know it wasn't really their fault because I have to be quiet about being gay and not talk about my relationship because SOME PEOPLE don't like that. So even though they'd flirt without knowing, I'd still get mad because I'm just that dedicated to the one I'm with. I will never ever understand a person who cheats on someone they've supposedly dedicated their life to and claim they still love.

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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leeroy

That's very cool, I have been the same way in my relationships. I don't get it when people cheat, that's just because I don't think the way they do I guess.

Loyalty is a wonderful quality to find in a friend or a loved one. Cheaters to me, just don't care about anyone besides themselves.

commented 13 years ago

jhharlan

Karma: 1457190

I cheated and it has come back to haunt me every since. I wouldn't cheat now, I've grown up a lot....

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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FISH-O

Karma: 954810

No. I couldn't cause anyone that much pain. I think that kind of betrayal will only come back to haunt you. It is as if you are throwing a gift away even if that gift didn't turn out exactly as you thought it would. I think it is better to end things, breathe and think about what you want to do next.

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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ed shank

Wasn't it said that "Curiosity killed the cat"? No meow here.

commented 13 years ago

Tommyh

Karma: 609115

Where is Eds answer?

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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Tommyh

Oh there it is.Guess he never got caught.

commented 13 years ago

Dollybird

Karma: 202380

I used to enjoy watching on Tv, Cheaters. Have not seen it for very long time now, it was brillant, and cheaters, got what they deserved, to be caught.