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A member on here once said that for years his wife tried to change him and in the end left because he wasn't the man she had married. Sad but so true. In many cases relationships break down due to taking one another for granted. The daily drudgery of life takes over and you both forget the fun romantic things that kept the anticipation alive.Now trying to change this has to be a two way street. I could tell you to wine and dine her, bring her home flowers, kiss a little longer, hug a little tighter, say "I love you more often, tell her she is beautiful more often, notice that she has done something new to her hair or has a new blouse on but after awhile she too must reciprocate or the things become unbalanced. Then again maybe if you try these simple things you may reap the benefits of a loving, affectionate, grateful, appreciative wife again. Who knows...might be worth a try?
13 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
I see this in many relationships. Thank God I don't have to deal with someone like that. My wife and I both have zero tolerance for bulls**T. Something bothering you? Spit it out deal with it and move on.
IluvJesus
13 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
I like that,because dealing with it makes it easier to move forward,a closed mouth doesn't get fed.
There really is no general answer to this question. Generally speaking most men tend to accept their life partner the way s/he is, even when they don't like the behaviour. Some women however see their life partner as a kind of raw material, that has to be molded into some kind of perfection. Personal history has a big role here and also that social/emotional satisfaction is more important to women than to men ( generally!) If you are in that kind of situation, find a relationship-councellor. This is not something people can solve between themselves.
13 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
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