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    how do i know when a man wants me for all the right reasons

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    When he doesn't pressure you for sex in exchange for all those right reasons. When he's willing to marry you first and then sex after the marriage. If you're already sleeping with him, then I don't know how you can test his true reason for being with you. Could just be for the sex.
    when he can cook his own dinner
    After you have been married for sixty years and neither of you has been unfaithful. Oh except for the times you might have had a "thoughty" some holy harry said on here that if you "lust after a woman if only in your mind you have committed adultery"
    Same person did say what the situation was if the lustee and the lustor were both unmarried. That couldn`t be adultery, could it?

    Back to the question,we old folk do wander so,there is no way of being 100 per cent certain about anything, except that you are going to die.

    The example above re 60 years married in no way refers to me.
    "WHEN YOU GIVE US THE RIGHT REASONS"(L.O.L). ALL JOKING ASIDE,I QUOTE(TOM HANKS)FROM THE FILM (SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE) "IT'S LIKE MAGIC"
    this is so difficult, so I really like this guy, freakin head over hills for him. We lost touch for about a year then I am walking out of a store and there he is waiting on me.....appr me like no time has come by. then he starts texting me telling me he wants to hang our, so Im like is he doing this cause he wants me or what. We have known each other for a long time, and he broke my heart cause the hole time I thought we were both in the relationship...well i was the only one in the relationship. Make a long story short I left and thought i was over him, but I am not. I need closure becacuse i need to know one way or ther other how he feels about me and I don't know how to get him to do that.
    Colleen

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    Ask him what his intentions are this time. Does he or does he not want a relationship? Ask him that. Can you be just friends with him if he says no?


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