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    I have been living with a guy for 12 years, we can't get married because, If with did I would lose my Social Security And SSI,My Problem is He has never made a will, and has 3 Grown kids, We have lived in his house on his property,but All I asked him was to put something down in writing (Leagal) saying I could live here if something were to happen to him, and then it would go to his kids when i die,(he is 71 and I am 58) Although I am disabled, I still use my money to buy things for the house,

    We live in the state of FL> so there is no common law marriage,the mother of his children and I have been really good friends since I met her 11 Years ago and she keeps telling me that her kids would not have a problem with me living here,But most of the time when there is land,vehicles, and a home involved, the first thing the kids want to do is sell everything and split the money!So that would put me out,I would say in proably less than 6 months if not sooner.

    +1  Views: 498 Answers: 6 Posted: 13 years ago

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    I would have a suitcase packed just in case.
    What is his reasoning for not doing it???
    i think you best cource of svtion is a living will, somthing simple drawn up leagly stating the house is yours after he passes until you pass away, thus releasing the property to his kids at that point.you need to get it in writing what ever the cost!1
    I think you would be his defacto wife, married or not. A defacto in Australia has the same rights as a married woman. I don't know about America. It would be a good idea to get legal advice.
    Maybe you could get the paper work yourself and possibly once he has it in his hands he will deal with it. Thats a tough situation. If not I do hope his kids really care for you.I have to agree that in many cases a death of a loved one can bring out very selfish and greedy behaviors.Maybe you should tell him you may have to set yourself up somewhere on your own because you have these fears.If he truly loves you, he will want to ensure that you are taken care of once he is no longer here to do it. Good luck to you.
    a living trust is the best way,however the two of you need to talk and find out what each one wants,then come to a agreement..........if he has not brought it up or doesn't want to talk about it that is probably your answer.


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