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how to start merriage separation

to break up with my wife after sixteen years of living together and have twoo kids 5 and 8 yrs old for the last three years we had so many problems which we couldn't solve things from day today getting worse finally she ask me to leave the house and trying to lock the door after i left for work she ask me to my staffs and not to come back, she want live along and she looks has a plan to live by herself so do i need lawyer or to go to court directly

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+1 Views: 1093 Answers: 5 Posted: 13 years ago

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daren1

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best get a lawer "he who represents himself in court has a fool for a client"

13 years ago. Rating: 2
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Headless Man

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I would suggest a marriage counselor first.
And a good movie to watch is Fireproof talks about a couple who went through the same you are.

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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leeroy

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Sounds like a tough situation to me, Randy and Daren both gave good advice, marriage is a lot of work to put it lightly, if you or your wife give up and stop working on it, this is where you come to.

If you still love her and she still loves you it would be smart to do what ever you can to work it out, but that will take effort from both of you. If one or the other doesn't want to keep trying, it just wont happen.

The kids are always effected the most by divorce, no matter what people tell you a divorce is the worst thing that can happen to a kid or family. I know the worst thing that happened to me when I was a kid was when my parents divorced.

I really hope that you can work out your differences, divorce is an ugly thing to go through for everyone involved. Hope it works out for the best...

13 years ago. Rating: 0
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ditah

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The only reason for divorce is adultery. After a 37 year marriage I caught my ex in an affair, and found it wasn't his first. I believe most other things can be worked thru. Good luck.