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    Fellows if you come up on a man beating a woman down, would you help her?

    +8  Views: 899 Answers: 17 Posted: 13 years ago
    higgins2011

    Yes - Yes -- Yes Iam a woman - I dont like a man beating on me.
    varon

    Good question Spacy..... and very sorry about your aunt
    Spaceghost

    Thanks varon, she lost her life over a stupid arguement with her so called boyfriend.

    17 Answers

    YES ... and I am a chick!!! I almost ran the bastard down with my car. My father in law said I am a terrible mother because Ididnt see the danger I was putting my kids in... I told him I was once that girl... And wish someone stood up for me.
    melandrupert

    well done Jenn i would do the same over and over x
    pythonlover

    Moderator
    You just see red at the time, and dont think about the consequences of your actions.I know how you felt.
    Jenn

    I knew exactly what I was doing.. My kids were perfectly safe... I didnt see a gun and stayed in my car. I am a mom first... But I will be danmed if I am going to let someone hurt someone who can not defend themself. He is lucky it was not a child I would have run his ass down.
    melandrupert

    well done Jenn you are not a auwful Mother its called instict "sorry cant spell that"
    Yes.. absolutely!
    Spaceghost

    Way to go my friend !!! Thank you.
    There is no way I could stand by and watch or walk away. I could not watch anyting getting beat up.
    Of course! I can't stand a loser like a man hitting a woman!
    I hate it when a man hits a women, they shouldn't do that for any reason at all, i would beat the crap out of him if i did see it. how can they call themselves 'man' if they do that. and let them hope i don't see it when i'm in a bad mood :)
    Spaceghost

    AMEN, I agree with you 100%. Thank you for the input.
    without doubt regardless of size, cause any man that beats up on a women cant be a real man. if i were totally overwheled then i would at least fight till she got away or i couldn' t fight no more and i would hope that any one would do the same for me or my wife. win or lose you still fought with a clean conscience
    ole hipster

    You're a real man daren1...(:
    what a good question Spaceghost I am a woman I would still jump in and I have done protecting a passer by anyway it makes me sick even watching on a movie and i Know it is not real its still up setting
    Spaceghost

    Thanks Mel, if I were a lady and was being attacked, I'd want you in my corner, You have a good heart. Appreciate your comment.
    melandrupert

    Thank you spaceghost yes I know your a man and I would still do this for either sex
    Spaceghost

    You're a GOOD person.
    Call the police on domestic disputes. I usually do stupid things like ask them direct questions after calling the police. To the attacker I ask direct questions that are intended to distract them and force them to think. Being out of control they are not thinking about what they are doing. Thought provoking questions will often stop a dispute." Is that your car in in the driveway that's on fire?" It doesn't have to be true. Other misleading questions can follow in rapid succession to keep their anger off balance. Commands are also effective...Get Out of the house! There's a gas leak and it's going to explode! My Dad ran out the back door on hearing that and I locked the door behind him. I was ten at the time.
    ole hipster

    Ah-h-h I can tell you grew up in a household with domestic abuse as did I and unfortunately I carried on this legacy by allowing myself to be abused by certian exes in my life...it's a friggin' vicious cycle...I have been in spouse abuse shelters with my kids and also ended up working in one as a counselor, administrative secretary and house mother for years and yet to almost this day...still pick that wrong type of man who cannot keep his hands to himself or has every excuse in the book to blame it on the other...sorry..I do tend to go on about this but it's a bad, bad state of affairs and affairs of the heart and mind and psyche!
    robertgrist

    You are right-on. Please answer questions rather than adding comments so I can give you a TU. Reads like we’ve been to the same schools.
    Been there,done that! got a good licking for my trouble but at least he left the girl alone.I was younger then too,so I recovered quickly.
    pythonlover

    Moderator
    Good on you for having a go(shows you have some heart)
    Spaceghost

    You're a HERO in my book Tommyh, thank you for your input.
    Tommyh

    I'm no bloody hero Spaceghost.Just a bloke with a good idea of what's right & what's not.
    Tommyh

    But thanks anyway:)
    Spaceghost

    You're a good man.
    I'm not a fellow, but I'd lay into him with my handbag. You can even use a credit card or a similar card as a weapon. The edges are sharp. Nice and sharp...
    Spaceghost

    You go eggplant, I'll bet you CAN be a lot to handle, thank you so much for your info.
    eggplant

    I'm little, but tough, I hope. My grandma used to sleep with an axe beside the bed, she was in her eighties. One night, she heard the bedroom window open and a leg came through the window. Gran, grabbed the axe and held it high. She said, "Put the other leg in and you'll lose both of them." The guy pulled his leg out quick smart and took off. She shut the window and went to sleep. I'm also armed, not with a gun, and don't live alone. There are so many home invasions these days. I read about using a credit card or anything similar on Alex Jones's website. Very useful
    Spaceghost

    Grandma had the right idea with that axe. I sleep with guns beside my bed, and WILL use them, so will my wife, she's a VERY good shooter also.
    Tommyh

    You're a vicious little bugger Eggy!(LOL)
    I gave everyone a Thumbs Up so far, they were all EXCELLENT answers. Thanks to all of you, you're all GOOD people. I had an aunt to be killed by a boyfriend when I was a small child, he shot her just over a arguement, it's an experience I'll never forget.
    Jenn

    Sorry Space... I have no shame and obviously no sence... I would stand in the line of fire for anyone in trouble... Miss you!
    Spaceghost

    I know Jenn, you have a GOOD heart and I respect and love you for that.
    robertgrist

    Crazed person with a gun...Jenn, please...deal with it differently. I know you mean well but taking a bullet is way down on my list of options. Being raddled and upset, in an unreal state between anger and fear with a gun in their hand does not make a situation where reasonable and smart choices are going to be made by the one with wild eyes. Someone needs to take charge of the situation...someone needs to be an adult and that is you. Blocking a shot won't help. What is needed is the restoration of peace and stability to the space. Think about that for a while before you answer.
    Spaceghost

    Good point robertgrist !!!
    i would pull her away and go call a cop
    of course.!!!!!
    Spaceghost

    Good answer potra57,T.U. for that. You're a good person but you got to be careful in those situations. A friend of mine went to the rescue of this lady being beaten and it was a domestic dispute, the guy pulled a gun on my friend. My friend talked to him and calmed him down, but it could have been real ugly.
    I would call 911 first because with my health all I could do is be a substitute for his anger.

    As I started to bleed I would say you're going to get aids, that might scare him off........lol

    I don't have aids, but real thin skin that will bleed with just a bump.
    Spaceghost

    Thanks Randy, I know what you are saying, it's a scary situation when getting involved with a man beating on a woman. Thanks friend for the info.
    YES I WOULD ALSO HELP A MAN BEING BEAT DOWN BY A WOMAN
    Absolutely!
    Spaceghost

    Way to go varon, you're a good man. Thank you for the info.
    varon

    Thank you Spacy for your kind words.
    That's what we call domestic violence, the same thing happened to my college professor about a month ago, he went to her rescue and she turned on him. Thanks Umbriel, for your input.


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