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It was how I was raised........

Some people are hard on themselves because they have "set the bar" pretty high and try to live up to those expectations of themselves.  If they aren't successful, they become overly critical of themselves instead of resetting their goals more realistically and taking things one step at a time.  It's like trying to climb a ladder by starting at the 5th rung, which is a major stretch (and damn near impossible for nearly everyone, I'll wager). 

There are others, though, who never accept responsibility for themselves in any way, shape, or form.  I'd rather be too hard on myself than this way, but I'd much rather be realistic!

I can't speak for women, but it's applicable to men who use Viagra.

i think its society...which mean us as a whole. Our whole lives we spend trying to improve and become better. Most of us dont realize that everything we need is already inside of us. Thank God. Lets be greatful and accept our greatness as given!

I think its society; us as a whole. We spend most our adult life striving to become better and perfect. What most of us dont realize is that God has blessed us with everything we need inside of us. Thank You Jesus. Lets accept our greatness as GIVEN...not earned!