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what makes you happy when feeling miserable and lonely?

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+7 Views: 1448 Answers: 13 Posted: 13 years ago

I hope all is well with you. Call a friend and go see a good movie, or maybe playing miniature golf or race car driving, just to name a few. :-)

Commented 13 years ago

umjim

A sincerely, faithful trust in the Lord. Therein lies the means to cope with life's problems!

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IamPamela313

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Sometimes I listen to some good and upbeat music.

13 years ago. Rating: 10
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Yobo

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I have a good cry, drink some wine and sleep it off.

13 years ago. Rating: 7
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Bob/PKB

Yes, yes, yes.....A good cry (can't say enough in favor of a good cry). Drink some wine. Yes yes yes YES. A little buzz to numb the pain and put a smile on my face. SLEEP! yes yes yes yes yes I would really love to go to bed by midnight and actualy sleep. Here it is 2:36 A.M........

commented 13 years ago

daren1

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a good book or movie, just enough to take me to fantasy land

13 years ago. Rating: 6
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Chiangmai

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"However long the night, the dawn will break."

~ African Proverb

Just hang in there. Nothing bad lasts forever.

13 years ago. Rating: 6
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monkey11

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I write out how I am feeling as if I were talking to someone then let myself have a good cry. It usually lifts the feeling.

13 years ago. Rating: 6
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Bob/PKB

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I don't know that I feel "happy", but I feel alot better when I turn my attention to recognizing all the blessings I enjoy in my life. I guess it's an attitude adjustment.

13 years ago. Rating: 5
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itsmee

I'm retired now (or can't work cuz of injury) Anyway, I had a home daycare and 10 or 12 preschoolers came to my home every day.
I found out the trick of "attitude adjustment" I put on a smile, a big howdy and went out to face my world. If I was grumpy, I'd sink the ship.
Psychologists say that if you SMILE, your brain will think you're happy and it actually happens.
I believe it but don't always do it.

commented 13 years ago

itsmee

I won't complain about this anymore but my computer will grab my text and post it before I've edited it.

commented 13 years ago

Bob/PKB

ITS MEE: you are right about that smile. I bowl in leagues. A few weeks ago, a man walked over & sat down next to me, asking if he could tell me something. Sure, expecting him to tell me I'm a good bowler. He told me I was a very attractive woman, but I really needed to smile. I'm trying, especially when I don't feel it inside.
My comments need editing, too, sometimes. It's all good. Thank you again!

commented 13 years ago

ed shank

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Thank God it's only one day of the year, my Birthday. I don't answer the phones, or the door. That makes me happy. Way to much traffic in my house the other 363 days.

13 years ago. Rating: 5
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itsmee

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dance to hey soul sister by train, or raise your glass by pink

13 years ago. Rating: 5
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6dogs4us

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I do something nice for myself.

13 years ago. Rating: 5
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kimba

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13 years ago. Rating: 4
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itsmee

Why kimba, how nice. Thank you. That will lift us up. We can conquer anything if we're fueled with M&M's. Sweet!

commented 13 years ago

veteran01

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Having a cold beer&good conversation with a friend.

13 years ago. Rating: 4
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schiz

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Excercise! I cannot believe what a simple 30 minute fast paced walk can do to get rid of the blues; and while your walking say "Hello" to everyone you encounter.

Also, if you can, go to a nursing home to visit in the lobby, sometimes by looking at how better off you are compared to others can lift your spirits and you may even find an interesting friend that is lonely too.