11 Answers
Jenn,it's time you explained to this guy that you are not going to jeopardise your marriage for the sake of a quick roll in the hay.
Over the course of my marriage I have had temptation knock at my door a couple of times but I have been lucky enough to be able to stop,think and consider what it would do to my wife & marriage if I carried thru.
No flirtation is innocent.there is always an ulterior motive.
Think about it girl.You've had enough troubles.Tommy.
13 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
we are sometime to quick,and jump to conclusion,if you did go to far,don't worry,there lot of fish in ocean.don't be like me, I was a coward when it came for a relationship,so I miss out,now I will never know. You'll probably the best thing for him? they say love is blind.again if it met to be, it will happen.hope you the best.GOOD LUCK. maybe I'll say little prayer for you only no one else promise.LOL.
13 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
I think men flirt much more than women. Men think about sex 24/7 and if they ARE flirting with you (women) they are probably looking to BONE YOU. Women on the other hand could stop the flirting in its tracks if they DON'T RESPOND or ACT OFFENDED. (like when I'm doing it) Going too far? Hmmmmm, I would say you've gone too far when your shelling out $60 for 2 hours at some roadside Super 8.
13 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
The innocence stops when one of the people involved starts getting stronger feelings. The signals sent out by flirting can be misinterpreted by the other person. If it's with a close friend then it's harmless and is usually good for some laughs!
13 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
Jenn, hitting the sack cause it's late here in Philly. I am worried about you so please find me tomorrow and let me know what's up. Love ya kiddo, Coach
Hey Jenn. When I'm in a bind, I try to weigh all of my options and consider the consequences before I decide to act on something I'm not sure about. Hope that helps a little. TTYL
Sounds complicated to me Jenn and I can't figure out exactly what the situation is so I can't give very sound advice. Sorry! What I do know is that your first priority should be to take care of yourself both physically and emotionally. Keep me up to date.
@ coach, what if it get a little physical.. I really am at a loss for what to think I am not being nieve.
I am all good coach... I have a friend who I am also friends with his wife... I see something going on but I am closer to him so I dont want to get involve until I have to.
I feel responcable for them... Cant tell you why. But If things go wrong... I am going to feel terrible. He knows better. But he thinks he is keeping within the lines. I keep it to my self and I get" why didnt anyone tell me... I say something and I am causing problems.
When it becomes more like a demand or an order.
BTW , how have u been jenn? good I hope
13 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
That is my advice... in a perfect world. but it is hard to tell someone to stop what is making them happy, if they are not going to follow through with it. (SEX).. I could say stay away from them or talk to your parner but in the end are they really hurting anyone?
i must agree with leeroy, it would be at the point of physical contact. until then, it is just innocent flirtation
I say , sleep on the thought and give it some serious thought. And if no one will be harmed in any way, go for it. You only live once. remember to think about it first
Good question Jenn t.u.2 u!