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Is (s)he is cheating on you?

1. Hanging out with a work friend at the gym every other night while you stay home with your child (plural "you")

2. Has told you point blank "I hate you" "I am moving out" and has been increasingly hostile...also drinking more

3. Has told your son "Mommy and Daddy are fighting too much. They have decided that one is going to move to a different house". (You have never fought!)

4. Work/Gym friend is helping with the move.

5. One of you sleeps on the couch.

What do you think? What advice would you give when asked?

(Disclaimer: not about anyone in my family)

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+4 Views: 2447 Answers: 5 Posted: 6 years ago

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ROMOS

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6 years ago. Rating: 5
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Clonge

"Yes...I remember it well." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQxM5rJ-uiY

commented 6 years ago

ROMOS

We have never dined, yet.

commented 6 years ago

Clonge

@Romos: Is that at invitation?

commented 6 years ago

Benthere

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....if you can't find trust, look out

....no trust, no chance

6 years ago. Rating: 5
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Bob/PKB

Not very helpful, but thank you

commented 6 years ago

Clonge

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What about this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8x5cUFoDnU

6 years ago. Rating: 4
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Bob/PKB

Not very helpful

commented 6 years ago

Clonge

Sorry. If my wife came home with lipstick on her collar, I'd be thinking that she might want to leave me for a woman. That would make me feel worse than if it was for another man! LOL!

commented 6 years ago

Bob/PKB

Yes, it would be a double whammy.

commented 6 years ago

mycatsmom

I would feel better if my husband left me for a man than a woman. That is just a hypothetical situation .

commented 6 years ago

jhharlan

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I would guess that at some point it’s time to cut the losses and move on. Read HOW TO SURVIVE THE LOSS OF A LOVE and start healing. Be your own best friend and love when it counts.....