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    When do you know it’s time to let go?

    I ask because I just finished going through 12 feet of hanging clothes to give away. Mostly my mom’s beautiful outfits that I had coveted when she was alive. I won’t have an opportunity ever to wear them. Just so sad to let go......

    +4  Views: 973 Answers: 8 Posted: 6 years ago

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    It's time to let go, immediately upon asking yourself that question. That's when your heart is speaking to you in a loud, clear voice. "Hanging on" only pushes the responsibility onto someone else at a later date. Not fair!

    jhharlan

    I should have thought of that having been the sole person remaining to tackle all that Mary (David’s wife) left behind. Just yesterday I gave away 6 dozen wine bottles free to a good home.....
    ROMOS

    Were they full Julie?
    jhharlan

    I’ve lived here coming up on three years. Shoot no they weren’t full.... Mary did make wine and left a few bottles behind. Nasty stuff, really.....
    Ducky

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    Nasty stuff? Send it to ROMOS. He'll drink it anyway! lol
    ROMOS

    Love you too Big Sis!
    Ducky

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    :)))

    When anything loses its usefulness,it is time to cut it loose..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

    You are doing the right thing Julie, time to let go and move on, it has to be done.


     


     

    ....when it is time to share and/or help others 

    jhharlan

    Ah, yes but what about ther broken parts left behind? Being kind erases them?

    My mother use to make my clothes until she stopped sewing about 6 years ago.  I always hated getting rid of things my mom made.  It's hard to get rid of anything we cherish.  But we must, to make room for the new things that keeps coming to us.  It could be a kid, grownup, cat, dog or bird.  We need to be thankful forever.  I hate to get rid of my own things too, but I do.

    It is hard when an old dog going blind , cant hardly walk, heart problems, in some pain, just not easy take to vet and have put to sleep. When do you know ?

    Ducky

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    Consider the animal's current enjoyment of life. :(
    Ducky

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    Aaawwwwwwww...... :( Very sweet.
    Bob/PKB

    When Darrell was diagnosed with lung cancer, the vet said he could give my dear sheperd mix medication that would keep him going another couple of weeks.
    That's when I knew. :-(
    terryfossil 1

    It is not hard to know when,but it is difficult to do it.put it this way.when you decide it is time to put him down,it is already too late..quality of life plays the big part.you proberbley want to keep him up to the last minute.but it is not about you,it is about your mate and what is best for him..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

    Oh, that's a question I can't answer. I have an eclectic assortment of things from "the past", including a toddler's hair brush, dress for a 6 month old, worn out stuffed animals, an angel made with a paper place mat, construction paper, some stickers, and a pipe cleaner. I have cigarette holders (think Hepburn) in every color, as my aunt was very stylish. 


    When you can't justify keeping it, or the value - sentimental or otherwise is gone, or you've no place to put it, you can probably get rid of it. 

    I'm very sentimental and emotional about getting rid of my parent's things. I've got mostly my mom's things...which isn't too much. She got rid of his things when he died in 1985.

    Bob/PKB

    Same here. Mom saved cards,letter, newsclippings. I have a trunk full of stuff she saved about me. It's cool, but interests no one else.


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