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    Do you think it's rude or embarrassing for your friends to take the mail out of your box and hand it to you ?

    I know they mean well, but it's an invasion of one's privacy for others to see incriminating mail from the IRS or your probation officer.......or if  you're buying stocks and mutual funds,and you don't  want to share that info with your friends,. No, I don't fall under these categories, but it's an example. Don't you think  your friends or family members should leave your mail alone ? 

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    Don't go into my purse, don't touch my mail.....

    Ducky

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    My purse is off limits for sure!
    mycatsmom

    even our mothers used to say go get me my purse. They didn't say go into my purse and get such and such out ;-)

    It's kind of a strange gesture I think but I couldn't care less, unless they've opened it for me. The outside of an envelope doesn't indicate a thing. It could be an advertisement from a bank, a mass mailing or a neighborhood promotion for all they know. Anyway, nothing weird or horribly private ever arrives in my mail box.

    I wouldn't have a problem with that, as long as they just handed it straight to me, and didn't look at it. Most of us don't have mail boxes here in the UK , we have a letter box, and the post just drops onto the doormat inside. If I was entering the doorway and there was post on the mat, I would probably pick it up and hand it to whoevers house it was, but I would definitely not look at the envelope, just hand it to them.


     

    mycatsmom

    Yes, they pick it up for me right outside my door, b/c I'm afraid they glance at it before they hand it to me b/c it's going to take me a couple minutes to get to the door.

    ....yes

    mycatsmom

    glad there's someone out there who feels the same way I do about this. I feel validated, Ben.

    Ir depends upon which friend. This one gets my mail, but doesn't know how to read: https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=dog+getting+mail&&view=detail&mid=A2923932E2BC808334A0A2923932E2BC808334A0&FORM=VRDGAR

    mycatsmom

    That was cute and a smart, well trained dog.

    rude.

    I have no problem with that,,if my friends are picking it up for me,after all they are our friends are they not,if i go to a friends house i will pick up their mail as i pass by their mail box on the way to their door,,the mail may be addressed to the wrong place,but that is up to my friends to work out,,i expect the same in return,,after all,what are friends for.???,,however i do have more friends on AKA than in reality..:):):):)>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

    mycatsmom

    We are your real friends, Terry . We care about you .

    Actually, I like the mail to arrive on my own rhythm...  it does not any longer, kind of thrown in my face. 


     


    Good point. 

    If I were incapacitated it would be nice, however mail is private and should be collected by the addresse! Some folks enjoy going to get their mail!

    mycatsmom

    mine's right outside the door........on the house.


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