terryfossil 1
I was watching tv this morning and a mob of young women who were singers all had their hair cut down to a crewcut to get some money in support of a cancer cure..and the reporter asked them what sort of comments they got for their shaved heads,one said you look like a bowling ball,but another said"you look like a lesbian",this being said by the younger generation,not an older person as myself,now the gay mob have said they are the same as heterosexuals,except they are attracted to same sex..so i ask how can that be the only difference,i walk, talk,dress and act like a heterosexual,,so then why does one person of a gay couple try to act,talk and dress opposite to what they really are.if the only difference is their sexual preference..as it says in the song"what is truth"..This is not gay bashing,i am looking for understanding..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..
3 Answers
ROMOS
Where is Colleen when we need her, personally I don't give a hoot, modern culture seemed strange to our parents and Grandparents many moons ago, same goes now, I see strange every day, I don't lose any sleep over it.
| 7 years ago. Rating: 4 | |
jhharlan
A very good friend of mine (good enough to share my Chicago experience with) is gay. Very. And he takes on no traits. Well, he likes things neat and straight (I drive him nuts) and his plants are beautiful. When riding together and passing a good looking man, we both look and drool. I ask him why/what makes a gay person flaming? And Mark can't say. It depends on the individual. I'd bet that 10% of all men you know or have known have been gay. My other neighbor is gay, has an ex-wife, daughter, three cars, hunting dogs, property in the country, all straight stuff. I guess I'm saying is you can't categorize all gays....
| 7 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
tabber
terryfossil I am so happy you asked this question. I have been fascinated by gay people every since I first discovered that there was such an idea that people could be gay and were attracted to the same sex. I was about 14 when a guy friend told me about "gay" people. So for many years I researched the topic, talked with people that were gay etc., etc. When I first got out of college I worked as a counselor at a halfway house, in san Mateo, CA. the girls and women came from jail and were chosen to do their time at the home. Some of the girls were gay. Some were simply in gay relationships while they were doing their jail time. I talked with them about how did they become gay, etc. People offered many reasons about why they were gay. After knowing and talking to many gay people I have my theories. But really it does not matter for this conversation. My sister's daughter is gay and she dresses more like a boy and her girlfriend is very beautiful and feminine and dresses like a girl. Now my niece is a raving beauty too. When my niece first came out to our family, my sister cried and cried and cried and was in disbelief, that this happened to her daughter. There were a lot of big parties we went to. At that time my niece brought a girl. They both dressed like girls. Both looked like Hollywood beauties. A whole football team wanted to marry my niece. And, a few Hollywood people still do. But, she was not interested because she told me she did not care to get involved with men in a physical manner. While at parties, guys would ask her and/or her girlfriend to dance. People could not see they were gay. My niece, sometimes, got upset and into arguments, when men tried to hit on or make a play on her girlfriend. That was 20 years ago. Today she dresses like a boy and there is no question that she does not seek to attract men, only women. I think we all dress to express how we feel inside. That's the great thing about clothes and makeup, which I love. And less not forget how much people express themselves with t-shirts, cars and pets, and lots of other things. People love to be appreciated for exactly who they truly are inside. I believe when we appreciate others, we give them such a great gift. I learned that from kids. lol.
| 7 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
