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Marriage to my second (and third) wife taught me trust, and rid me of the "need to get even".

Oh! It was so much fun at first, we were truly friends. So he turned out to be a liar and a thief. Gee, I guessed everybody was. Experience, ya know? Took me a while to figure other people out.....

I erroneously felt secure, connected, and loved.

In many many ways,but mainly i had to learn to care about someone else besides myself..but it was not that hard..however after 30 odd years,and if my marriage was to fall over,i would certainly not try again..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

The first time it was an up hill battle into "Oh My Goodness Land"  I did not feel like a wife, I felt like an employee.  My second marriage is magic. 

It is very good to be in a place of magic.