A couple years ago, a "friend" of 10+ years made a very snide remark about my dad, who has been dead since 2001, and she never met. When I left her home shortly after, I vowed not to speak to her again. She called the next day; I did not return the call and didn't hear from her again, either.
Two days ago, I was at "the casino", losing money and visiting with the woman at the next slot machine. Who should appear to speak to her also but my ex-associate. Face to face.
What would you do?
5 Answers
I think I would smile and say hello and leave it at that. I don't think I would feel the need to mention to her why I didn't return her phone call so many years ago and I'm sure she figured out on her own. If she were to ask me why I stopped speaking to her, I would let her know and give her the opportunity to apologize.
8 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
I would tell her why you stopped talking to her, She might be dense enough to not even realize what she did. Maybe even ask her why she said if she never met your father. You have been hurt all these years and she might be wondering all these years. Time to bury the hatchet, get some answers, and move on with or without her as a friend.
8 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
I wouldn't give her the time of day, she doesn't sound like a friend you need to me.
8 years ago. Rating: 3 | |