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    Do you resent needing help?

    I like doing anything on my on. Unfortunately James is always better and it's hard to keep a secret from him.....

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    Yes I do. I rarely ask anyone to help me do anything. As a result, I find that most people believe that I never need help and so they never offer any. I might give the impression that everything is wonderful and I can easily handle anything that comes my way. So untrue.

    I use to ,until I read a book by Dale Carnigie,on how to win friends and Influence people,and reolizes that other peoples get satisfaction out of helping others,and I now enjoy being helped,and sometimes help in return,

    lindilou

    ... too cool !
    mycatsmom

    Hect, that's an old book. I read it too. Where'd you get hold of that book, since you're only 31 ?

    I LOVE getting help ... but I'm usually 'on my own' ...


    ""

    What a pity you think James is "better"....that's even worse than your political preferences!


    No one helps me do anything unless I ask, and I resent when I ask and the help never materializes.

    hector5559

    Never fear Den is hear,
    jhharlan

    Bob, he does have attributes, seriously....
    Bob/PKB

    I can't say one kind thing about him, Julie. Not one. So I'll say nothing.
    Bob/PKB

    Dennis, this garage is driving me crazy. I need help getting rid of STUFF and need to fix the garage door opener. How soon can you be here???
    hector5559

    Wait just cheak when passport is due for brenewal,??
    jhharlan

    ha ha ha ha ha ha!
    Bob/PKB

    I'm not a socialist, progressive or otherwise.

    When it come to heavy lifting, i never say no to helping, i am not as young as i used to be.

    ROMOS

    Ditto!
    mycatsmom

    double ditto

    I do like to do things on my own,,i get satisfaction and achievement out of what i achieve,,and when people help,,they tend to want to do things different to me,and i do not want to say no to them,,so it is better to do it myself..>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

    ROMOS

    Ditto!
    Ducky

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    This may also apply to me...faster and easier to just do it myself. :)

    The only thing I resented was when my dad used to be needling in my affairs under the guise of helping me..... b/c he always acted like I didn't know anything and couldn't do anything. But, then, he's been gone since I was 36.



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