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Everyone keeps ignoring me?

Alot of my friends and my bf keep ignoring me, i've stated that i'm going through a tough time and i keep asking them all what i should do about said personal problem, and they all ignore me. I assumed they weren't comfy talking about it so i just bring up any topic, and they seem to just ignore me no matter what.

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+2 Views: 1323 Answers: 2 Posted: 9 years ago

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jhharlan

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I know. It's frustrating isn't it ? I can sympathize, I've often felt that way myself and felt sorry for myself. Then I wake up and shut up. They've heard enough. You'll be surprised at how much they have your back. It's all cool.....

9 years ago. Rating: 4
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mycatsmom

right on, sista

commented 9 years ago

Bob/PKB

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Have you asked any of them if they are ignoring you? You may be FEELING you're being ignored, or your pals may be preoccupied with their own problems.
Maybe your choices for conversation starters are things about which they know or care little.
Pick a topic that you know is interesting for your friends or BF.....a sports event, music, movie, or club/organization where you may be members. Keep the topic of yourself off limits. Ask about your friends' lives. People loooooooooove to talk about themselves.
As a LAST resort, tell your friends you are feeling ignored when you speak. Do it one on one and start with the friend you trust to be honest with you the most.