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This is a very common situation. Some take more than they are able to give. After reading your question I assume you feel as though you are the person in a relationship who gives more than you get. You need to do is decide if this is okay with you. If it does not then keep on truckin'! Eventually, you will find a relationship that you find comfortable.

9 years ago. Rating: 9
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No, actually the very few people who are my friends do not expect me to do much of anything when they extend an invitation.  When I am host or plan, I take care of details. This summer, I've a couple trips planned. The details are being shared and compromised so everyone enjoys the time together.

With my adult children, they are becoming more assertive, and I'm glad!

9 years ago. Rating: 7
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You need to talk with your "partner, friends", and you also need to work on your punctuation.

9 years ago. Rating: 6
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I know where you are coming from. You are putting the everything into the relationship. Well, let me tell you, he’s not changing. Either get used to it or stand up for yourself and say good-bye…………...

9 years ago. Rating: 5
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My friends are selfish. They 'll ask me to go places with them, but it has to be something THEY want to go to. They won't go anywhere with me. And they'll tell me what movie we're going to see. They never ask what I want to see. And if I suggest a movie, they won't go to it with me. They won't go anyplace, unless it's someplace THEY want to go to   :-O

9 years ago. Rating: 5
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I guess it is totally up to you ,if you want to be a doormat..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..

9 years ago. Rating: 3
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.... I treat them like I want to be treated 

7 years ago. Rating: 1
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