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    What should I do if the people I love do not get the blessing of my family?

    0  Views: 3374 Answers: 6 Posted: 10 years ago
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    Colleen

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    Answer was posted as a question. I moved it to here. Read below:

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    akakfamily amswered:

    hey just pray to god everything can be okay and hope they understand when time goes on i hope they give u the blessing and try taking them out they just need time to know him before they can give your there blessings course understand it will be hard for them to give you away to someone they don't know so try giving them time to know him before you can ask for there blessings i hope this words will make you understand why your family will not give you blessings

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    You have to make a hard choice. Your life is yours to live. No one has the right to deter you from a path you wish to take in it. Living for yourself sometimes means giving up those who wish to chain you to their ways and take away your free will. 

    binti.maisya

    but my family means a lot in my life, including my loved ones.
    both so important to me, should I sacrifice one of them?
    Colleen

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    Only you can answer that. You have to decide what is more important. Can you live without complete freedom and give up the others you love in order to please your family? Is pleasing your family more important than pleasing yourself? You can always make another family, one that accepts everything about you and your life. I believe that even though we are born into a family, it is our destiny in life to let go of that family and create our own, just like the animals of the wild do. They grow up, leave home and make their own families.
    Colleen

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    binti.maisya

    I think it's a good idea, and I believe that all problems must be the way, thank you for everything. I hope I can deal with it all,



    :-)

    You have to follow your own gut instincts, b/c your family won't always be there.


    Or, you have to ask yourself the hard question...........which is more important to you in the long run.......the person you want to spend your life with........or your immediate family

    hey just pray to god everything can be okay and hope they understand when time goes on i hope they give u the blessing and try taking them out they just need time to know him before they can give your there blessings course understand it will be hard for them to give you away to someone they don't know so try giving them time to know him before you can ask for there blessings i hope this words will make you understand why your family will not give you blessings  

    binti.maisya

    thanks for your attention, the first I must finishing my study, and I can work after that,
    I know my father can understand me and he will do anything for me if I need him,,

    Listen to their concerns and then make your mind up as to whether YOU think you should go ahead!..

    pray and be patient if they didnt  blessing you.(bersabar dan sentiasa berdoa agar hubungan kamu berdua direstui)


     

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