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    Is this statement true?? You never learn from something unless you go thru it yourself

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    Mostly true. Experience is a great teacher and a lesson learned………….

    Yes I believe so. For instance, try explaining to someone that has never endured a panic attack.They are clueless to what one would feel like.You have to experience  one yourself to truly know the extent of what one is.

    mycatsmom

    P L , Yes, I was trying to explain what it's like to my BFF. She didn't understand, b/c she's never had one.I had them from the 11th grade on up till I was 51 ! And then I got on some meds for it.What a relief.
    pythonlover

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    What meds mcm? I wish I could find relief.
    itsmee

    Whenever I feel a panic attack, I put a Xanax under my tongue. There is a quick delivery of medication. I've taken it for about 20 years and I'm not addicted. It could be that I'm just lucky. It's one to watch out for. PL, you must find relief from panic. If your regular doctor won't prescribe either go to another doctor or ask to see a psychiatrist. Your GP should be able to prescribe though. I see a psychiatrist for Xanax. I would be able to get it from my regular doctor but she's afraid to prescribe because I take several medications that might not do well with Xanax.
    My Panic can be overwhelming ...

    unless you go through something yourself,you cannot possibly fully understand it,,but that does not mean you cannot learn something from the subject,,,the subject can be various,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

    We are born stupid, we are taught everything, just about the time we know everything in life we are stupid again then we die.   Best to learn what you can from any means you can learn it then teach someone else before you get all stupid again and nobody will believe you. 

    Ducky

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    LOL!!!

    Some people have a lot of empathy and I believe they can pretty much feel what another is going through. If someone is hurting, these people might be well prepared to have the right words and a caring attitude.  A little kid is crying for Mommy. An empathetic person feels the child's pain. That's an easy one, of course.


    As people grow up, they learn to hide their feelings but still some people can have correct empathy. From what i've seen in my life, women are more empathetic than men.


    There is more I want to say about this but the words aren't coming to me. I've deleted more than I've written.  Sensitive subject. Good question!

    Not a true statement. You can absolutely learn many things without having to go through it for yourself. If a man runs into a fire a burns up, would you have to run into the fire and burn up too to realize that what he did might not be a good idea. Right.

    nice, nice

    good thought! i never thought of that!
    nice, nice

    i am going to give u a TU!
    Ducky

    Moderator
    "If your friends go and jump off a bridge, will you go too"? LOL!
    nice, nice

    of course not! duh!
    Ducky

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    @nice nice. That is an expression to tabber, NOT YOU, that you are far too young to recognize or remember!
    nice, nice

    k.k.! u see i saw it under my name so i thought..... sorry!
    Ducky

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    That's ok. You made a mistake, that's all.
    nice, nice

    i am very sorry for the inconvenience! :-(
    nice, nice

    but y did u make me feel dum? :-(
    Ducky

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    No one can MAKE another person feel dumb!
    nice, nice

    ok. well i felt dum when u said that! ok
    Ducky

    Moderator
    I am one of the moderators here and one of my goals is to keep our members from feeling uncomfortable, for any reason, while they are here participating. :)
    nice, nice

    ohhh! really?! lol! hahaha! :-)
    Ducky

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    My explanation to you was not meant to be funny. I meant exactly what I said.
    nice, nice

    it was funny to me! because u hurt my feelings by saying that so harsh! i am sure u must be wondering if i am a crybaby! NO! i am not! i am just soft!
    nice, nice

    which means if anyone tells me anything and i don't like it i just tell them as it is!lol!
    Ducky

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    You need to be careful here, about what you say. You can be permanently suspended if you get too carried away with your comments. If you are extremely sensitive, then perhaps this is not the place for you to be.
    nice, nice

    k.k.! sorry! :-(
    tabber

    HI DUCKY. Happy you and nice nice conversed the topic through. Ducky if my friends jumped off of a bridge, it would depend on the circumstances if i would or would not jump too. Now i have a very smart, courageous and fearless brother. I've always told him if i see him run from something, that i'm not even looking back, i'm just going to run. Now if he jumped off a bridge i might have to jump too, because i realize what he is jumping away from must be too terrifying for human eyes to behold. Other than that i would not jump if a friend jumped. I do have one friend with no common sense. If this friend tried to jump i would get out of the way because this friend might try to grab me to jump too.
    Ducky

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    Funny tabber. I hope you have the time to be that analytical during the "jumping crisis". LOL!!

    yes it is to me!

    There's a lot of truth to that, but there are no absolutes .

    “Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener”; One of my Dad’s favorite ‘Saying’. 

    People COULD learn from others' experiences, but nothing compares to first hand knowledge.  Would you rather HEAR about someone's trip to Niagara Falls, or experience the magnificence yourself?  Of course, not ALL experiences are pleasurable, and THOSE are the ones it would behoove us to experience vicariously through the pain of others. 


    Here they are, Niagara Falls, frozen, circa 1932  ""


     



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