20 Answers
I don't think there is a cause, you are just born with your sexuality.
10 years ago. Rating: 17 | |
Bo saraxy - Very controversial subject - you can indeed research this yourself. Scientists are still trying to find a gene for this. It is also thought to be to do with too much testosterone while in the womb. This applys to true homosexuality if it is correct - but I belief there is a fine line here i.e. bisexual, homosexual and heterosexual which can depend on circumstances, enironmental factors all of which can play a part here. Does it really matter in the scheme of things. Any which way finding a soul mate cannot be anything but a good thing.
10 years ago. Rating: 14 | |
Love love |l?v| noun 1 an intense feeling of deep affection: babies fill parents with intense feelings of love | their love for their country. • a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone: it was love at first sight | they were both in love with her | we were slowly falling in love . • ( Love )a personified figure of love, often represented as Cupid. • a great interest and pleasure in something: his love for football | we share a love of music. • affectionate greetings conveyed to someone on one's behalf. • a formula for ending an affectionate letter: take care, lots of love, Judy. 2 a person or thing that one loves: she was the love of his life | their two great loves are tobacco and whiskey. • Brit. informal a friendly form of address: it's all right, love. • (a love) Brit. informal used to express affectionate approval for someone: don't fret, there's a love. 3 (in tennis, squash, and some other sports) a score of zero; nil: love fifteen | he was down two sets to love. [apparently from the phrase play for love (i.e., the love of the game, not for money); folk etymology has connected the word with French l'oeuf ‘egg,’ from the resemblance in shape between an egg and a zero.] verb [ with obj. ] feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone): do you love me? • like very much; find pleasure in: I'd love a cup of tea, thanks | I just love dancing | [ as adj., in combination ] (-loving) : a fun-loving girl. PHRASES for love for pleasure not profit: he played for the love of the game. for the love of God used to express annoyance, surprise, or urgent pleading: for the love of God, get me out of here! for the love of Mike informal used to accompany an exasperated request or to express dismay. love me, love my dog proverb if you love someone, you must accept everything about them, even their faults or weaknesses. make love 1 have sexual intercourse. 2 (make love to) dated pay amorous attention to (someone). not for love or money informal not for any inducement or in any circumstances: they'll not return for love or money. there's no (or little or not much ) love lost between there is mutual dislike between (two or more people mentioned). DERIVATIVES loveworthy |-?w?rT?H?|adjective ORIGIN Old English lufu, of Germanic origin; from an Indo-European root shared by Sanskrit lubhyati ‘desires,’Latin libet ‘it is pleasing,’ libido ‘desire,’ also by leave2 and lief.
Anyone willing to let their heart rule their life _____________________. Fill out the blank for yourself. Love carries me through life effortlessly. I cherish every moment of my experience in living here. There is nothing else to live for.Try something other than love to live for and you would be dying.
10 years ago. Rating: 13 | |
I think you have come up with the perfect answer, robertgrist.
Books have been written to answer what you answered so simply. : )
Guys never get headaches when it really matters.
10 years ago. Rating: 13 | |
LOL
What causes bi-polar? The same thing. It is something one is born with………..
10 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
I don't think you can isolate and say definitely "this is the reason/cause". A woman who has been my friend for over 40 years had a boyfriend all through high school and was seriously attracted to one of her female classmates.
She has been in lesbian relationships her entire adult life, and has confided to me that if the right MAN came along, she hang up her, well, never mind....
10 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
leave it alone ,,there are to o many differnt answers
10 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
It's still unclear to Drs and scientists what causes it. But, one thing is sure......... You're born with it.........just like you're born left handed, or if you're born color blind. Also, like anything else, it tends to run in families. I know a family in my town that had 8 kids. Two of the boys died of aids. I know other young gay men who have told me their uncle is gay.That doesn't mean it has to be heredity, like sickle cell or hemofilia. It just means that it tends to run in families. In nursing school they said that trait is called "familia '' Another theory I've heard is that it's endocrine abnormalacies. The endocrine glands are excreting the wrong hormones.
Schiszophrenia is familia , too. My friend, Ron's brother has it , and their grandmother was in an institution for a long time.
10 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Boy this one really got people going. I personally don't want to start a fight, but i would love to give my opinion. First of all i am not gay, however I do admire those that are. For this reason: As the millionaire matchmaker, Patty, says on her show, everybody wants love, but some can't find it. To me a gay person finds the courage to find love with another human, which is what we all should do, if we want to. Love is a greater and great force in life. So I appreciate gay people for finding love and not letting their love life be lost because their are not heterosexual. For a very long time since i discovered there was such a thing as homosexualiy i was very interested in why? I know and have known many gay people. There are gay people in my family. I have talked to many people re: what made them gay. Most i have spoken with feel they were born gay. When I first got out of college I got a job with the county as a counselor at a women's alternative jail. Many of the women engaged in same sex relationships while incarcerated. We all had many candid conversations about why? Some of the girls and women said they were just doing it while incarcerated. Several were hardcore and indicated gayness was them and thus their chosen lifestyle. Now with my inquiries and observation over 20 years, i came to some disagreeable or maybe agreeable conclusions. I do like the wonderer's answer "likes . . .and dislikes". which is a fabulous viewpoint. However from a psychological perspective I found that girls, from baby to maybe 5 years old experienced too much male affection/interaction and did not know how to respond to it and became turned off by men. For men i found that father/male emotional support was missing or minimal and/or mother/grandmother/female support was overwhelming and the boy began to emulate and identify with female while longing for the male love, interaction and support. If the female care giver was also violent to the boy, like shaming or spanking, greater chances boy will be turned off by women and prefer men. I am not including transvestides nor transgenders, who are wonderful courageous people. This is a fascinating topic, like everything about people. But in the end, love is the key. Now don't take my word for it. Sometimes when you are with a gay friend or family member, have a sincere fun and caring conservation and delve into their family dynamics. How they were raised, who was the boss at home, did they get bullied and beat, were they control by anyone. Did daddy or uncle kiss baby girl in the lips too much when they were a little girl. Fascinating deep deep stuff. Only have this talk with someone you love and admire. They probably will still disagree, but these dynamics will be present if they can remember remember remember back. We all have the potential to be anyway in this world. Plus we have the right 'to be'. Research is showing 75% of what we do and who we become is due to our up bringing and environment. Love Tabber
10 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
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Thanks Colleen. No i am not talking about people that are hiding. I'm talking about, out, confident and fun people. True we all do have issues from our upbringing, but its all good. That's how we develop individual character that we all possess. I also feel that nobody needs a therapist to get rid of their gayness unless they want to. Personally, however, to me all people are great and fabulous. Also straight or gay, many people never know their partner on as deep a level as they might desire, but that's part of one of the things human beings go through while in relationships. With debatemanshp and love. What would we do without you dear Colleen.
definitely a curse or pain in <edited by moderator> from being normal
10 years ago. Rating: -1 | |
I suppose your answer is based on personal experience because you are homosexual? You seem so sure of yourself so I have to believe you are homosexual. Define normal. Normal is subjective and can not be clearly defined but I'm sure you will give it a go :)
Td`d you simply because I find your views offensive.