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I say I've forgiven most of those who have hurt me, but there is a part of me that holds resentment, which I'd love to unload. So, perhaps I've not forgiven, but simply moved past the hurt. Those people aren't worth the time or effort or emotional turmoil they created in my life. Do I tell people when they've hurt me? Yes, when the person is someone I know actually cares.  
As to those I've hurt.....if I apologize, yes, I'd like to be forgiven, as I don't say I'm sorry unless I truly regret my actions or words.  If I've hurt someone and don't know about it, it's hard to apologize.  Do I want to hear about it secondhand? NO, I would like the person to tell me.  

Question 1: Nope.

Question 2: Don't care.

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Anyone who can undo their error and will not, does not deserve forgiveness. Anyone who seeks to redress grievances, correct or compensate for their error is forgiven already regardless weather their actions are accepted or not. Those who honestly seek forgiveness are forgiven already. Those who choose not to accept and forgive those who seek forgiveness have barred the door to their heart and have choosen the path of resentment for themselves. Their victory is hollow, empty and pointless.  

Lucifer remains unremitting in his rebellion. I cannot forgive him for what he did. I do understand. 

I forget forgiving but  always I'm worry about not to be forgiven.

that's what Jesus's teachings are all about. It's in the Lord's Prayer that we Christians try to say everyday.