ineedadvice101

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My bestfriend

My best friend Celina has been there for me since, forever.

She is usually kind and friendly

Since spring break when I went to my aunt's beach house an I invited her,

She keeps asking me to go back.

Every day she texts me asking if I'm going there this summer

I always answer I don't know yet, but yesterday my brother

Told me that aunt Melissa invited us to go next week.

Celina just texted me.. AGAIN asking if I was going.

I didn't respond yet because I feel as if I need a break from all

The drama in my life, even though I love her to death, she's becoming quite annoying

Please tell me what I should do!

Should I invite her? Or not?

My mind is telling me not

but my heart is telling me the opposite.

Help?!

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0 Views: 2973 Answers: 5 Posted: 11 years ago

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lindilou

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Take the opportunity to go and take your BFF with you because you will regret not doing so....when I was a kid (which is hard to imagine) my BF was 'forced' to take a friend (me...the victim) with her to her Grandma's farm...I was aware that she did not want me (or anyone for that matter) to go but at the pleading of her Mom I went...knowing that my friend was not happy about it. That evening she started a pillow fight with me that culminated in her attempting to beat the crap outta me...her Grandma made us go outside where I took my friend into the hay field and proceeded to stuff her clothing full of hay so she ended up looking like the Michelin man and a Scarecrow combined...she was really looking for a scrap but I gave her the works and a run for her money and we both ended up laughing our keesters off while her Grandma stood there shaking her head and laughing...after that episode my friend became her charming old self again and we spent a glorious week bumming around and bugging her stupid boy-cousins to death...it was worth going and we ended up more like sisters than friends... so be cool, be of an open heart and mind and above all be glad that you have a good friend in this world where many don't....peace and have fun!!!

11 years ago. Rating: 6
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itsmee

I read ineedadvice's question and my first thought was 'of course no one should take another just because the other WANTS to go' I felt strongly.

But, Dear lindilou, I read your answer and I totally changed my mind. I loved your response and I could just see you two laughing' it up while Grandma looked on. I gave my best friend a bloody nose twice! Carol is still my best friend but is no longer on our earth.

I love to read what you write. xx

commented 10 years ago

lindilou

Friends are easy to find...hard to keep...a good friend is a blessing...like YOU!!!
Me loves ya girly xoxox Be well ! ;)

commented 10 years ago

itsmee

(((lindilou))) <3 <3

commented 10 years ago

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