11 Answers
Since I don't know him, I can't confirm or deny your assessment of his feelings for you. Men are not as prone to announce "I love you" as freely as many women. If they were, I wouldn't believe it for a second anyway.
I do not agree with telling the guy you love him and waiting for him to reciprocate. It just seems to be too much pressure. If you two enjoy each other, have fun, don't argue about stupid (or not-so-stupid) stuff, and are good together, let it ride. It will come from him when he honestly wants to say "I love you", not when he feels compelled to do so, which is not honest.
So, summing it all up, let him know you love him by your actions, and accept that when the time is right (for him), he will tell you with his words.
P.S. I had a boyfriend; we lived together for nearly 9 years. He never once said, "I LOVE YOU" until I left, which, by then, was too late. He did, however, give me a card, which I have, 30+ years later, with the sentiment:
"I may not say it often, but somehow I hope you see, that all the things I love, are all the things you are to me."
11 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
Anith - Bob/PKB has just the same feelings as I do - Men have enormous difficulty sometimes saying those three words - in fact of course some Women too like me. Have you asked him if he loves you? this again is something I would never do. If you haven't asked him then this is not a question of honesty - Actions do speak louder than words and if you watch you will know.
10 years ago. Rating: 2 | |