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As I remember my daughter growing up with all of the preteen drama of the girls in her social circle, it will work itself out and is intended to help you to learn how to interact among society.  If the adults get involved, usually the parents end up with bad feelings between them long after the kids have sorted things out.  Everyone goes through this during their adolescence and it is your part of development into your character.  They do not hate you, maybe do not want to talk to you this week, that is all.  

Have you asked them why they don't like you ? If they are friends they don't hate you,  If they hate you they are not friends.

Hate is an awfully strong word.  And I doubt you are hated as you believe. All the same, you feel so. That's gotta hurt. Ask the most trusted if you imagination isn't getting away with you.............

Everyone feels that way sometimes, even adults. Just keep doing the things that interest you and before you know it, your friends will be talking to you again or you'll have some new friends. I'm sorry that you are feeling sad, but it will get better soon.

Sweetheart,  I am sure you are not hated by anyone, least of all your friends.  Obviously something has happened to cause distress and the only way forward is find out  what that is and deal with it. Do you have a member of the family or another friend who is mutual to help you approach these people. x

maybe some girl is talking about you to make herself feel more important and more liked by your friends. I think this willl blow over. In the mean while, take up a new pastime, like guitar lessons or something. You'll make new friends, and look  positive in the eyes of your old ones.

They are missing out, Anith ,by not having you as a friend,

You need to stand in front of a mirror and ask that question.  Search your soul-- You might be surprised what that mirror image will tell you if you listen.   You know the answer, you must be strong enough to face the answer.

Other than that, you're just paranoid, start smiling around them rather than looking shy and meek. Show them you are happy to see them.  

i would bet this is imagination. It must make you feel terrible until it blows over. I think it would help you if you talked to a counselor. The people on akaQA like you but there’s just so much we can do. Do you think these “haters” are bullies? How long has this been going on?

Ask them why are there hate you

Opinion against your actions seem correct to those who harbor that opinion, true or not. The opinion was spread by someone as an accusation to everyone who has that view. Did you do what you are accused of, or did the accuser distort facts? Since your friends cling to the accuasion and will not speak to you about it, preferring the witnessed account rather than being puzzled by contradiction. Your friends have the difficult task of mulling over what was told them as true, about a trusted friend. Their consideration of you has been compromised and it is most likely that you know who spread this tarnishing on your fame. How you handle this situation is an opportunity to raise or lower the consideration others have of you over a considerable range. Choose wisely. 

They are friends so they don't hate you. Perhaps they don't like certain things you maybe doing. since all of them cannot dislike you equally, warm up to one who is still closer friend and ask what is it that they don't like about you. They will turn around. Meantime you continue to be good to them.

Vinny's suggestion is right in line with mine. Soul searching time. If you honestly can't find a reason for your friends to abandon you, it is time to cultivate new friends. Easier said than done but certainly not impossible.