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How about YOU listen to HER instead. I think that will work better.

11 years ago. Rating: 11
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I have a wife been married to for almost 30 years.. same problem, there's no cure for that, it's in the Woman's DNA. Get used to it.

11 years ago. Rating: 10
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I have a similar problem , my wife says I don't pay any attention to her or something like that i wasn't really even listening !!

11 years ago. Rating: 8
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Consider it a dress rehearsal for marriage.

Run, Forrest. RUN !

11 years ago. Rating: 8
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Try speaking proper English to her..........

11 years ago. Rating: 7
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Maybe she's reached the expiration date with the relationship. Move on.

11 years ago. Rating: 7
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Maybe she doesn't want to be told what, when and how to live her life.

11 years ago. Rating: 6
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Go Fishing, or to a football match, or whatever else you like doing. Get yourself a dog, it will listen to you, and won't answer back.

11 years ago. Rating: 4
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These aren't my words :33

1) She has given or is giving you a reason to believe she would cheat on you

2) You are for whatever reason, insecure with your relationship as it stands.

I would figure out which reason best fits. If it is because you don't trust her, talk to her honestly about it, find out if the relationship is really worth it.

If you don't really have a valid reason for wanting her to break the friendship it is probably because you're insecure--sorry. Just breathe and be rational, maybe ask to meet this guy. Ease some of your fears. I know if I had a boyfriend that wanted me to stop talking to a friend, I'd be upset. Give her a chance to show you that they really are nothing more than friends.

If she absolutely refuses to work with you at all on this then you know that there probably *is* a reason to be worried.

11 years ago. Rating: 2
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