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    I like this guy,bt does he like me back? PLEASE HELP!

    Well Im a host at a bar/restaurant. I work with another host named Jake. Hes single.He stares at me from across the room,he once asked me to stay with him after his shift is done & he bought a meal that me & him shared. He asked me questions like how old am I or am I in school exc. When we walk pass each other,he looks in my eyes & smile. He holds the door open for me. He teases me & acts goofy a lot around me. One morning, I came in to get my check. The manager & other employees were having an important meeting. Jake was in it too. But when he saw me, he literally walked away from the meeting & said hi. I told him I was having a problem putting my check in the bank. Without me even asking him, he got one of the other managers & told them what my problem was & asked to him to help me. I was so surpised at how helpful he was being! My supervisor once teased me & told me that Jake likes me & wants to take me out. He was joking though. But, my supervisor asked me if I was single(yes) & if I liked Jake. I said as a friend. Me & Jake were sharing a meal once. My supervisor yelled Get it Jay! Jay smiled & said shut up. I finally worked up the courage & got Jay's number. He told me to let him know if I ever want to switch shifts with him. When I was about to leave, I teased and said I might text you or I might not. He said okay wih a smile & he chuckled a little. Im too nervous to text him. I also want to get to know him a little more. Im not sure if he likes me back. I dont want to get my heart broken. What should I do? Are his feelings mutual so far?

    +1  Views: 663 Answers: 7 Posted: 11 years ago

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    Relax, be yourself and eventually, he'll ask you out on a real date. Go slowly.

    ""  Think "Friend Zone"  and see what happens next.  There are many fortune cookies in the box.

    He likes you, be careful, ask your Mom.


    ""

    mycatsmom

    Romos, If she was born in '93, then she is 20 yrs old.

    Could it be that Jake is just one friendly guy ? Does he show the same amount of interest in other female staff members? For now, enjoy the attention and Jakes friendship. Fingers crossed,  he might ask you out.

    Your profile says you are 20 years old! Are you? How old is this guy you are asking about? Be careful . I don't like the scenario that appears to me.

    jami93

    He's the same age as me which is 20

    I would say he definitely finds you special, EXCEPT for one thing. 
        "
    I finally worked up the courage & got Jay's number."
    "" 


    Had you said he asked for YOUR number, I would give a cautious blessing.  As it is, I would caution you.  Something isn't sincere here. Sorry.

    jami, I didn't read all of  your lenghty post. But, I do know that he likes you if he makes a lot of eye contact  with you ; and if he wants to see you all of the time outside of the resturant.



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