My X-husband has had me served with a motion to vacate spousal support. He lives in Massachusetts and I live in Florida. I can not afford to hire an attorney like he has nor can i afford to fly up there to represent myself. I qualified for legal aid assistance however, the legal aid office here can not help me up there and the legal aid office up there can not help me as i do not live there. I can not afford to hire a private attorney so I have no idea what to do, I recently underwent back to back eye surgeries and i can see again after being legally blind for over ten years so I was unable to respond sooner than I had the court date is approaching April 18th 2013 and i am the defendant can i file a motion to continue until i can find representation? I was told if i do nothing i will lose automatically and i left a message with his attorney he will not cal me back.