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    Are you a person that cry for something sensitive or keep inside yourself?

    I don`t  cry next to someone, because i know that nobody can`t know how i feel at that moment , and nobody can`t understand my life. When you can`t keep your tears in public it`s very embarrassing but for this case i act good and then just i hurry up to find a place to cry just alone or keep inside myself.

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    While I don't make a point of blubbering in front of people, and I do try to keep it to a minimum, sometimes crying is appropriate or stress-relieving.  Sometimes MY tears give someone else the relief (s)he needs to know it's OK to cry.

    millie111

    Crying is just ano way of showing ano emotion..I want to know why there is still such a stigma attached to crying in public..Why should/do people feel ashamed...shows we have feelings.When my dad died I walked down the street crying my heart out..but I still felt the need to pull my hat right down and felt ashamed as people were staring at me.We all need to cry sometimes!
    Bob/PKB

    Good q, millie. It could be that crying is associated with trauma of some sort....pain, loss, frustration, anguish.
    "No one likes a cry baby" may be part of the problem for us, too.
    I watched a video of a guy lip syncing a marriage proposal and cried...the love someone I don't know for his gf, and all the people who helped...brings out emotions we can't explain and tears result, for some reason.
    millie111

    yep bob,that sounds about right..and no,no one likes a cry baby..and I`m not expecting everyone to go about their day blubbing all the time..Just what`s wrong with the occasional outburst without it seen as the person is mad/crazy..like people cannot handle and are scared of dealing with such a natural expression of emotion...Mind you..they look at you as if you`re mad for smiling around here!Lol ;-)
    Bob/PKB

    It is a very judgmental world. If I cry, my sons get upset with me. Buggers, can't they just leave us our emotional moments! Crying is a great release.
    Let's just ignore everyone, millie, and cry if we want.

    It's OK to cry.At least it demonstrates that you have a heart.I don't cry on the outside because I'm a big,tough Aussie bloke & that wouldn't be appropriate.But I do cry on the inside when I feel for people.There have even been a few postings on this site that have made me go all misty. So go ahead...It's NORMAL!

    Crying is a natural emotion and you should cry if you feel the need. I feel bad for people I see crying in public and it makes me want to ask them "is there something I can do to help you?"


    HOWEVER. . .. If it is a small spoiled child crying and screaming throwing a tantrum in public, I want to cover my ears & run away! 


    Don't feel to bad though I cry at Hallmark & ASPCA commercials!

    Colleen

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    Anheuser-Busch Clydesdale commercials. Did you ever see the 9-11 tribute they made? It aired only one time. Very touching. Made my eyes tear up.

    I cry if animals die in a movie. Other than that, it has to be something major that makes me cry and then I would still try to hold it together if other people were around. 



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