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Sometimes it can be hard to distiguish what is your responsibility vs another's responsibility.  Sometimes accidents happen & it's nobody's "fault".  Sometimes other people do" act out" against you.  It's all a learning lesson.  Figuring out what part you had in any situation and taking responsibility for that part is the key to getting past it & trying to prevent the same situation in the future.

11 years ago. Rating: 16
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Because some people believe that they are ALWAYS right.

11 years ago. Rating: 16
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I think- You made your own bed- now lie in it.  Some how this is NOT what others think- I think you always have some control over your own life. 

11 years ago. Rating: 14
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Because ignorance is bliss!

11 years ago. Rating: 12
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Accepting the "blame" means that the person must change something about their own behavior. They refuse to put in the effort because they would much rather be "right" than "happy". They never admit to being wrong and they never say they are sorry.

11 years ago. Rating: 10
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Because it's always easier to blame others than it is to look in the mirror. 

11 years ago. Rating: 9
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Tunnel vision, blinders, you name it.............

 

11 years ago. Rating: 9
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Do you mean why is it difficult for some to accept responsibility for their own actions? Actually there are some people who are narcissistic and whom will never see anything as being their 'fault'...they are only in for their own glory...are these the 'people' to which you refer? I've come to see that there exists a 50-50 in any given relationship of choice...meaning I give 50 % and you give 50 % and we'll have a 100 % relationship...because inevitably a 60-40 rarely works. And then there is the problem of perception where a person sees an event one way while you or I see it a differing way...and so it goes into conflict..which humans are great at creating especially with one another. Just know that you are only in control of what you do, so lead by example...judge nothing that occurs, do good, and at the end we all get to go home from this massive crazy party !!!!   Peace.

11 years ago. Rating: 8
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Just human nature.We have a saying here, If you burn your butt on the stove you have to sit on the blisters.In other words take responsibility for you own actions.But who does? OK some do,but it's not 100%.

11 years ago. Rating: 6
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